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Author:  Sparroww [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 11:22 am ]
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I've never been much for online game, but I saw a girl on facebook that I just had to try. Let me know what you think of my opening message.

I saw you on the mutual friends thing and thought you were cute, so I checked out your profile, and I have to say I'm impressed. Great taste in music and movies, it's good to know that you're as interesting as you are attractive. I'm curious about you now, what's something cool and unique about you?
Author:  AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 11:35 am ]
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Dislike. Wayyyyy too much complimenting, especially if this girls attractive she probably knows this already and gets messaged by lots of weirdos about it. Saying you're curious about her now is letting her know that you're trying to hit on her which instantly puts a wall up.

From what I learned Facebook openers are simple, keep them short and sweet.

"Hey, i was just browsing through facebook and noticed your site. You have great test in music and movies! blah blah is my favorite movie, did you see blah blah movie? it was even better!"

Get to know her first, get her to buy into you before she knows that you're interested. Hope this helps you can contact me through my site or PM me if you have questions.
Author:  Sparroww [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 1:10 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice. Maybe online game is more different than I thought, I've always ran direct game in the field and it worked great. Anyway, I'll let you know how this goes.
Author:  SeductMe [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 1:39 pm ]
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AttractionKings had it right.

I'm not a PUA yet but i think you should have used a mix of compliment and a light Neg.

Hey i noticed that "insert mutual friends name" had you in his/her friends list, i like your profile,and decided to know you and make sure you're not a psycho or 80 yo man with fake pictures. so where have you met "insert mutual friend's name here"?.

i would have sent that. don't just copy past it, understand the concept of "i like your profile"+"you can be a psycho". she will probably want to prove to you she's a normal girl.so she's seeking validation and you're the prize.
Needs Pua confirmation.
Author:  AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:48 pm ]
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Hahah i like that opener Seduct, i use something similar depending on the target. Most of the time i shoot from the hip and make crazy shit up.
Author:  Popa [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 11:11 pm ]
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The guy who posted the video, Get 30 girls in 10 minutes used this: Hey goofball! I can already tell we wouldn't get along. we're too similar, we both like to rock the fuck out in life... the earth would probably explode if we hung out because of too much superpower in one place! you get a coolness point for that .)...get 15 and you get the special prize...hit me back

He got a couple really good replies. Just passing on what I found out.
Author:  AttractionKings [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 1:27 am ]
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Haha thanks for sharing Popa. The truth about online openers is anything will work if it brings interest. They key is to understand what kind of girl you're messaging, I can see that opener scaring away a lot of girls at the same as other girls might think it's hilarious.

I've learned there should be 2 types of openers.
1. Laid back friendly neg opener.
2. Excited explosive opener like Popa's.

Ex. of a laid back friendly opener would be something like
"Hey, just was browsing and found your site. I don't compliment much but you look like a dork, in a cute way. :)"

I've used that a few times and have been successful although I usually don't use the same openers, that's just me. I like to have fun.

The 1 thing I'd change about Popa's opener is the special prize part, you're already declaring to her that you want sex. And lots of girls will put a wall right up. My goal is to get the girl to like me first, and want to have sex with me before she even knows I want to have sex with her. Works well with 1st date f*ck closes.

Flirting is always good, but i suggest get to know the girl a little first because you're a stranger.

have fun!
Author:  joe182 [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 11:10 pm ]
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Quote:
"Hey, i was just browsing through facebook and noticed your site. You have great test in music and movies! blah blah is my favorite movie, did you see blah blah movie? it was even better!"
it would be funny if u use this without changing the "blah blah" X)
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