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| Author: | Snarg [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 5:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First date with girl I met online |
So, finally, I managed to find a girl online who wants to meet up for a date. We've been talking a LOT online and she seems to be pretty comfortable with me despite having never met me (she's going to be attending the same private college I just graduated from, among other things). So, with that said, I have a few questions: 1) I found a really nice Italian restaurant that is about an hour away from us. I realize that's really far away for a first date, but it's not your typical restaurant and I think it would make for a really memorable first date. But is the distance too much? Should I be straightforward and ask her if it's alright? Or should I scrap this idea altogether and just go somewhere closer to where we live? I figure we could use the car ride to get more personally acquainted since I'm very good at keeping a conversation alive. 2) In the event that the above is "too much" and we go somewhere local, should I plan anything for afterward? Or should I just keep it to a 1-2 hour dinner then drop her off? 3) This is a question outside just the scope of online dating, but I am curious as to what you all think about chivalry. Should I open/shut the car door? Little things like that. Typically I do that for all of my dates no matter how long I've known the woman, offline or online, but I am not sure if this is actually the right thing to do. I'm in my early 20s, by the way. |
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| Author: | Beyond Pick Up [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 6:06 pm ] |
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What's your goal for the date? If you want to treat her to a good place/restaurant then yeah you could bring her ther. Just make sure to keep the vibe during the travel fun so as not to bore. :) p.s. It should be up to you if you want to prolong the date or not. :) p.p.s I don't do much of that chivalry stuff you mentioned but what I do is to show care |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 6:53 pm ] |
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Alright, thanks. My goal isn't just to get laid, I'm kind of past that phase now and am looking for something more serious. |
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| Author: | AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 3:46 am ] |
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Personally i love the chivalry crap. Just because not a lot of guys do it so girls eat that sh*t up. I hope you've already talked to her on the phone, as lots of girls are very different between messaging on facebook and talking on the phone. Also the tip i give everyone that emails me about "finding love" is to keep a big pipeline because you never wanna settle for second best. What you want to do after the date is totally up to you. I've noticed that girls get a lot more 'into you' if you simply just kiss close them. And most girls although they won't admit it like to kiss on the first date. |
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