I have tried hundreds of openers on myspace from negging or making comments on the page. I found that no openers ever seem to be very effective the best way is to read her profile and make a comment. However, this opener has worked for me 90% of the time and it is good because i have been spending a lot of time on other openers where i have to read everything on her profile and then write this long opener. So here it is.
Subject
- Always put something interesting in the subject about her that does not seem like spam. Girls get hundreds of messages that have subject blank or it just says hey or hey beautiful and all that AFC crap. What i do is find an interesting thing on her page. Whatever it is she talks about copy a few words and put it in quotes on the subject line. If she dosent have much, myspace has an astrological sign thing on everyone's page. Even on the ones that are hidden so i use this a lot. i just say "Libras and i dont mix". That works pretty well.
Body-
On the body I always Start with whatever is in the subject line. If i used the astrological sign i will just say "so i will just pick your brain for a second instead of trying to strike up an amazing conversation." If it is something else form her page then comment on it but don't show to much interest. I like to do bait hook reel release. Show interest in it but then use a false disqualifier. From there i copy and paste this. "My buddy _____ just broke up with his g/f of 3 or 4 years. He called me a few min ago trying to get my advice on what women want from a man since he is dating again. He thinks that i somehow know the secret. So, what do you guys want. Like you for instance, what is the most important thing about a guy that attracts you to him? Give me something good so i can act like i know what i'm talking about next time i talk to him
" Some of that could come off as a DLV because i am saying that i dont know what im talking about but i think it is more strongly laced with the DHV idea of he approached me about it because a lot of women like me and i realy am not sure what it is i do that makes women like me but they do. Reply - When she replies whatever she says. Looks, brains, whatever it is. He dosent have that quality. (ex. " I think it is important for a guy to be confident and successful" my reply "Ha Ha, i agree but the problem is that he is the most self contentious guy that i know and he works at blockbuster. So that isnt much help. What else. What is the next best thing.") I do this 2 or 3 times. By then she has said something to allow for a few DHV stories and she has had some of her own and qualified herself enough to get my attention and i then say "you are pretty interesting. lets continue this conversation on the phone or AIM your pick." And then run Game form there.
Hope this helps people who were stuck like i was.