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2nd CHANCE @ GIRL I ALMOST HOOKD UP WITH 8MONTHS AGO?
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Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 7:18 am ]
Post subject:  2nd CHANCE @ GIRL I ALMOST HOOKD UP WITH 8MONTHS AGO?
Hey guys, through some advice from the forum and the MM I decided to put up some social proof of me with other girls on my FB profile just for any potential targets I might game. In less than 24hrs of posting the pic this Russian Hbrunette8 I almost dated 8months ago "liked" the picture of me with another girl.

Now just to give you some background I was at that point a BAFC and she works as a part-time model but luckily I met her in class at college. I wasn't trying to game her I just made her laugh a few times and was very social to everyone around me in the class. After a few classes I told her liked her and #closed and she seemed to be chasing after me until I told her liked her. It's seems there was a power shift and I asked her out 3 times she said she was busy every time. She finally said something like I don't have time for you and it's not you I have guys asking me out all the time and I'm trying to focus on me right now (bullshit!). I saw her in class a couple of times after that and pretended like nothing happened and basically let it be. Now, I realize that I should have not have shown so much interest in her and let her chase after me.

This brings me to today 8months later I'm still an AFC but now I'm learning PUA so I don't want to mess it up this time :) Unless I'm reading too much into her "liking" a picture of me with a cute girl after 8months? Anyways my fellow PUAs what should I do? Should I just send her a typical opener like "I see you're stalking my profile, liking my pictures..." or I read somewhere on the forum that I could go and find a picture where a bunch of guys where saying she's cute and comment on some random thing in the background and even neg her. Btw she has a boyfriend now but I think she would be the type to cheat.

P.S. is self deprecation considered DLV?
Author:  Don Draper [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 11:26 am ]
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Why don't you just ignore her?
Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 6:46 pm ]
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do
Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 6:55 pm ]
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Why don't you just ignore her?
Don't know what happened with my previous post... Anyways, so you don't think her trying to make some kind of contact with me after all this time is a sign? If I am reading too much into then I will ignore her.
Author:  Don Draper [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 8:49 am ]
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I think you're reading too much into it.

It's just a 'like'.

If she messages you, now that is another thing altogether.

For now, think that she doesn't exist in your world.
Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 3:12 pm ]
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Thanks Don, will do
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 4:50 am ]
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I think you're reading too much into it.
I generally agree, but that doesn't mean you can't make contact. Use an indirect opener, sound like you're just being friendly (and you are!) and you can reopen contact with this girl without losing value.

She is NOT inviting you to hit on her, and she is definitely not saying she's interested in you. She is, however, saying that she is willing to have contact with you, and if you feel you're ready to apply some PUA knowledge, this is an opportunity.

If you don't think you're quite ready, feel free to give it time. She didn't message you or anything so there's no set time frame, you can just throw in "It's been a while!" onto you're opener, and you'll probably come off with even more value because you're indicating that her rejection didn't bother you that much.
Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 8:46 am ]
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I don't think I'm quite ready yet but can you give me an example of opener i can use, for future reference.
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