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Author:  sonic172 [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 5:57 pm ]
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[Me]Sleeping, eating & music.... 3 very good qualities, we should talk, I'm not a twat x (She had these as her favourite things and said no twats to messag her)

[Her]Indeed, they are :P Heyah, howah you? x
[Her]Btw, you have prettyful eyes

[Me]Hey thanks, I did rate you a five btw (Don't think I scored you too low? :p) I am literally eating risotto and listening to music as I type this (the one food that proves my love for bacon is so much more than my hate for mushroom!)

How are you?

x

[Her]A five out of what? I'm tired, had a busy day today. Am watching Cannabis: whats the harm? Because... i dunno :P x

[Me]Out of 5 silly, aw sucks that you're tired sounds like you need a massage and nice bath to relax, I bet that's a cool show would be cool to watch it high just for the irony factor! What do you think to the glasses in my pic btw? I still have yet to decide whether to buy them or not :D

x

[Her]Ohh :D Give me a massage then :P Haha, yeah it's quite interesting actually. They look nice but im not really a fan of sunglasses, why would you want to cover up those lovely eyes? x

[Me]Anything to help my new friend get to sleep ;) Oh these eyes are sensitive with all this lovely sunshine we've been getting, and I'd want to protect them so that I can carry looking at your pretty face :)

Messaging you on here seems a little silly, have you got AIM or facebook (that you don't mind me seeing :P) to chat further?

x

[Her]Ahh, you best get the sunglasses then :P It, hasn't really been that sunny, it's been raining quite alot. Yeah, just search for me.... XXXX XXXXXX

[Me]You're name is kinda popular on there I could take a chance but I would be adding like 6 XXXXX XXXX's and that would just make me look silly now.

My name is much more unique :)

XXXXXX XXXXX - I even have the same glasses on ;)


[Me] I no longer have the glasses on, you should add me though :) x

Btw there were several account of the same name some with obscure DP's that may or may not have been her, she never added me
Author:  Snarg [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 6:08 pm ]
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Maybe there are multiple people with the same name as yourself, and she added the wrong one?
Author:  sonic172 [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 6:11 pm ]
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The name was amazingly specific as it includes my DJ alias as the middle name :/
Author:  GKS [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 8:01 pm ]
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Even if the name is too common, if she's indeed interested, she would totally make effort to look for it or come back and ask for your email.
From what I can tell, the whole conversation is too platonic, you can sense her vibe isn't that high of interest. You did a good job building rapport though, but it's lack of attraction. Next time, don't be afraid to escalate or flirt with her. Make it very clear that you want to fuck her brain out and you have no intention to be her buddy.
Also, reduce the amount of smileys in your message, only reward her with them when she earns it. Keep the messages short and bold, and make her qualify herself, the whole conversation gives out the vibe that you're trying hard, she barely talked about herself.
Author:  sonic172 [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 8:05 pm ]
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Even if the name is too common, if she's indeed interested, she would totally make effort to look for it or come back and ask for your email.
From what I can tell, the whole conversation is too platonic, you can sense her vibe isn't that high of interest. You did a good job building rapport though, but it's lack of attraction. Next time, don't be afraid to escalate or flirt with her. Make it very clear that you want to fuck her brain out and you have no intention to be her buddy.
I do feel that I struggle to move on to flirting and stuff sometimes, I just don't know how to move on from the rapport / chit chat stuff to more sexual topics
Author:  GKS [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 8:13 pm ]
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I do feel that I struggle to move on to flirting and stuff sometimes, I just don't know how to move on from the rapport / chit chat stuff to more sexual topics
The best way to do this is talk less and listen more. Throw her some question to make her qualifying herself and pick up cues from what she says or tease her. For example:

[Her]A five out of what? I'm tired, had a busy day today. Am watching Cannabis: whats the harm? Because... i dunno Razz x ---> You could have totally tease and accuse her of being a pothead here, then she will qualify it.

[Her]Ohh Very Happy Give me a massage then Razz Haha, yeah it's quite interesting actually. They look nice but im not really a fan of sunglasses, why would you want to cover up those lovely eyes? x ---> Again here, I would say "To stop you from sneaking a kiss on me, I was told my eyes have some sort of mysterious seductive power ;)"

There are more throughout the conversation but the key is be playful, creative and not afraid to get sexual. And don't be too fixed on your opener, the glasses opinion is irrelevant as it's used to spark a convo, feel free to drop it whenever you like, you don't have to stick to it.
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