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| Author: | chadthapimp69 [ Tue Jun 07, 2011 6:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | PUA noob here...possibly need advice |
Okay well just to give a little background on myself I am 24 years old and I have had basically little to no success when it comes to girls. I have ALWAYS been a very nice guy. It seems the ones that were always attracted to me I had no attraction to at all and the ones I wanted had no interest in me so this has caused me to be a very shy, anti-social, social anxiety type where just trying to talk to women I am interested in just ain't gonna happen. But I learned of this PUA stuff so I decided to study it a bit and give it a shot. Here I am like a month later with a much better response rate online and I have even gotten some numbers. I am nowhere near some kind of master probably because I am only willing to do so much when it comes to picking up girls but I am happy with the results I have gotten so far. Now keep in mind I have only had online and phone success I am coming close to my first real life meet and I just wanted to see if there was any advice. A friend of my brothers on Facebook added me randomly one day so I decided to give it a shot with her since I think she is pretty hot. I did my whole routine and I eventually asked for her number and she said she was in the middle of working something out with an ex so she couldn't and said she would give me her number if things didn't work out. She just messaged me the other day saying that things were close to being over with her ex so I should be expecting her number eventually. Now here is where the advice comes in... I am pretty sure I could easily get her to come over to my place and hang out. I planned to keep on my playful negging with her that I have been doing with her on Facebook and I had a few KINO ideas. I just wanted to know if all that sounds just fine? I mean I have gotten here into a state where she obviously is somewhat attracted to me and is comfortable enough to come to my house. Also the second big thing that I am not sure how to approach or handle is that she does have a kid. I really don't wanna come off like I am looking to become a father figure for her daughter I just want to hang out and have fun with her without any responsibility. Any advice or things I should avoid in this certain situation? Thanks to anyone who can be helpful! |
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| Author: | chadthapimp69 [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 4:16 pm ] |
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Wow nobody here has any advice at all when it comes to dealing with a girl who has a kid? |
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| Author: | Beetle [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 10:58 pm ] |
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You don't have to be a father figure necessarily, but it's good to act like you could be. Girls are hardwired to like that. If it comes to that, have a lighthearted buddy-relationship with the kid, but don't force it. She will pace the relationship in that matter, I believe. Other than that, treat her as a normal girl who has responsibilities on the side. Just keep in mind that she has those responsibilities, and that's it. Not speaking from experience, but that's my theory of it. |
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| Author: | itsjaysea [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 3:46 am ] |
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why don't you post up what you have messaged her so far on fb? or something of that nature so we kind of see what you are saying and how she is responding. im sure some people on here can give you very specific help advice and ideas if you do that |
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