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Tricky Situation with old girlfriend (2002!)
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Author:  se16 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 9:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Tricky Situation with old girlfriend (2002!)
I was with a girl at Uni for 3 years and after that we parted company and didn't stay in contact at all. We were really close and went through some quite dramtic times together which is why I think it was way too pianful for us to stay friends.

We last spoke in 2002 I think. About 3 or 4 years ago I sent a letter to her, actually to her parents place because I didn't have her address. It was quite light hearted, just reminiscing about old times, asking what shes doing with herself and telling her about what I'm up to.

I know she received the letter because I sent it by recorded delivery and it was diverted to another address. Also, about a month after I sent the letter she called me and said hello but then hung up the phone. It was 100% her.

I tried calling back but no answer and I texted her but again no reply.

So, I write another letter and here is where I think i screwed up. I put loads of emotional stuff in it and looking back it must have been quite heavy to read. I never got a response and I didn't try calling her again and actually deleted her number.

So, then I see that shes on FB and I try to add her but she doesn't accept.

What I want to make clear is that I'm not pursuing her as a GF, I am just really curious as to what shes doing with herself and would like to form a friendship if possible.

I'm wandering what I can message her on FB that might make her take interest and respond.

Any suggestions?
Author:  relaxed [ Sat Jun 04, 2011 7:52 am ]
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Sorry, but she is not interested. Nothing you can say to her will make her interested, only if she, by herself, sees you doing it big/being the life of the party/getting it on with hot chicks will get her interested.
Author:  se16 [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 2:28 pm ]
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hmm, yeah was hoping for something more positive but deep down i know you're propbably right.
Author:  dlightmen [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 3:53 pm ]
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Yeah, dude, don't chase her. You need to go after her in a more indirect way.

There was this one girl I always wanted in High School, we had the same mutual friends all thru High School, but I never talked to her because I always got AFC around her. I moved out of state and just a few weeks ago started getting in contact with all my old high-school friends.

I finally got her to send me a request! What I did was made my profile somewhat interesting. I put a bunch of videos of me snowboarding at different places around the country, and put my best pics up. Along with pics of my house, my jeep, me at work, etc... I then sent requests to all my old friends that had her as a mutual friend. It worked! Even though we barley talked in H.S she sent me a request! I knew she'd look at my profile if my name kept popping up in her friend's status...

This also got me in contact with a really attractive girl I dated in Jr. High! We're going out for coffee on Monday, too.. :)
Author:  se16 [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 10:52 pm ]
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problem is shes not friends with any of my friends and she lives in another country
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