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I wish this shit was alot easier lol
"The harder the mountain is to climb - the greater the view is at it's peak"Life would be boring if everything was easy.
Good luck dude
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| Author: | Randy3375 [ Mon May 30, 2011 6:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Facebook opener for a hb10 |
I know it's hard to msg a girl that you've never met especially a super hot one an not come off as a compleat creep dose anyone know a good opener for a hb10 she's 21 an By her statues updates she has a major bitch shield going on so this ones a challenge |
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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Mon May 30, 2011 6:57 pm ] |
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If it were me, I'd just approach her in person, but you can just inbox her with a normal opener. And if she acts bitchy, you can say something like "You know, I bet a lot of people think you're kinda rude. But you seem kinda nice. But that's just my opinion." and see what she does. I've gotten surprisingly good results for disarming bitch shields using that one, but results may vary. |
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| Author: | LVATTEMPTS [ Mon May 30, 2011 7:42 pm ] |
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yeah... if she is actually an hb10, this is almost IMPOSSIBLE. an hb10 has a ton of dudes she could literally chose to engage and sleep with or whatever, why would she go out of her way to read a message or something from someone she doesnt know? that might work on an hb that is lonely, or if you have pics of yourself that make you look like fucking brad pitt, other than that... all you can do is have huge balls, approach her in person, the online shit wont work in this case.... probably |
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| Author: | Randy3375 [ Mon May 30, 2011 8:03 pm ] |
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Yah I figured it be almost imposable I guess il have to build some self confidence an try to talk to her I'n person Uhhg I wish this shit was alot easier lol |
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| Author: | Healz [ Mon May 30, 2011 8:08 pm ] |
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Quote: I wish this shit was alot easier lol
"The harder the mountain is to climb - the greater the view is at it's peak"Life would be boring if everything was easy. Good luck dude
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| Author: | Randy3375 [ Mon May 30, 2011 9:15 pm ] |
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So true man thanks |
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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Mon May 30, 2011 11:40 pm ] |
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If nerve is your problem, (Which it kinda seems like, considering you're using facebook instead of a more direct approach,) the best way to get over it is to just get used to it. I took my friend who has ZERO confidence with girls out sarging Saturday night, and told him to just go up to random girls and do opinion openers. While an opener is pretty much useless without closing, it's good for building confidence. And after that, I had him compliment some chicks, (HB6's - HB8's) and neg some others. He hasn't picked up any chicks yet, but he will next time I take him out. The goal for Saturday was to build his confidence and now he's actually ballsy enough to do it. |
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| Author: | Randy3375 [ Tue May 31, 2011 3:27 am ] |
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Yes it is my nerve as of now I'm gradually trying to build my self Confidence by sayin posative things every day but it's alot harder to aproch girls when your on your own out ther like me ,against having a expericed pua coach you an push you threw a routine an letting me know what I'm doing wrong but none the less im progressing SLOWLY lol hopefully il get to where I can talk to hot chick an be completely confadint about everything I do an or say |
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| Author: | Supa123 [ Tue May 31, 2011 7:49 pm ] |
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It's all about practice my friend. The more you talk to women the more natural you get with it. You can't just throw routines. Building a strong inner state is very important. Women can feel it when you are not confident of what you say. |
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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Tue May 31, 2011 11:27 pm ] |
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Something that helped me A LOT was getting this rockstar mentality. Like, thinking "I can get any chick I want. If she doesn't want me back, she's replaceable." And honestly, isn't pua based on that mentality? Because honestly, if she doesn't want you, there'll be another chick out there. Sure, they'll be an hb8 or something. But I'd trade an hb10 for five or six hb8's. |
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| Author: | Randy3375 [ Tue May 31, 2011 11:30 pm ] |
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Yah most definitely they sense low self confidence an boom shut down this is my situation il see a beautiful girl an my mind goes blank I start thinking about what I should say second guessing myself as she's walking away I sike myself out il say I'n my head damn I'm deff Going to talk to the next girl an then the next girl comes the same routine continues the feeling of me just 100% getting embarrassed ends up ruling my mind it's very hard to do this stuff on my own will power alone I think it's going to take a long time before I see results to me it dosnt matter the few times I did push myself to talk to a girl my heads not I'n the game so I'm going nowhere I get shut down an frustration builds not going to be a easy fix but I'm trying to build it up just gota remain as positive as I can an tell myself everyday I can do it |
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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Tue May 31, 2011 11:42 pm ] |
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You could use an opener that's a neg. Helped me quite a bit in the beginning. I just thought if I opened with a neg, it would save me embarrassment because I could say "I didn't want her anyway, it's why I gave her shit." |
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| Author: | Randy3375 [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 4:47 pm ] |
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Can you give me an example of a neg /opener |
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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Sat Jun 04, 2011 3:16 am ] |
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Sorry if some of this seems redundant, but I'm gonna explain what an opener and a neg is in case you don't know, then I'm gonna give you a decent example of the two combined. A neg is something like a backhanded compliment, or some teasing. Basically, it's making a chick who's full of herself think you don't find her all too attractive for whatever reason, be it her personality, looks, whatever. An opener is basically anything to get a chick talking. Like I took my AFC buddy out sarging to get him to be a PUA, and I had him open some sets with opinion openers. ("What do you think of my buddy's hair, I tell him he needs a haircut." was one of the ones I had him use.) Now an neg opener is something like "Hey, I like your wig. Where'd you buy it?" (Works really well on snobby chicks who focus heavily on their looks) This'll knock an HB10 down and she'll probably think you're a douche, but her opinion will change if you game right. If she flips enough of a bitch, (Believe me, most girls will) apologize and say something like "Sorry. I didn't mean to sound rude. While I have your attention, though, [Insert opinion question here]" and then from there, game on. Good luck, buddy. |
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