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Author:  Stevos [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  FB request from pool girl
Hey everybody,

I'm new here and also new to pickup and i have a question.

Today i went swimming and i saw a pretty blond girl, we both went to the same school 2 years ago.
She noticed me when i was swimming freestyle (totally owning everybody in the pool), she looked a couple of times and then went with her friend into the hot tub. I was training so i didn't approach them or anything. ( i'm a chicken, i know :( )
After a while i had to go the to toilet and when i went back to the pool the 2 girls went to the toilet and both smiled at me. I just smiled back and continued swimming ( im such a wuss ). And then they both went under a shower where i could see them. ( Perhaps this was coincidence ? )

Now i came back home, checked facebook and the girl requested to become my friend. Again she could do this because she's being polite or is she interested in me ?
I haven't accepted yet, Any advice on how i should proceed, in getting to know her and maybe go on a date with her :?:
Author:  MrMatt [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 9:41 pm ]
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Why would she add you to be polite? You didn't ask for anything, did you?

Chances are she is interested in you, at least a little bit!
Author:  Stevos [ Fri Apr 15, 2011 12:24 am ]
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You're probably right MrMatt.
So how should i proceed after accepting ?
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Fri Apr 15, 2011 2:02 am ]
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@Stevos-Always assume the girl's into you until you prove otherwie.

It's always on should be your frame.

Mr.Matt is correct on his insight.

It's just up to you now to not F it up by being a wuss like you were at the pool.

So accept her friend request and get the ball rolling via banter.
Author:  Stevos [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 5:28 pm ]
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Thx K-Loc.

Well so i accepted the friends request and afterwards wrote her a personal message. Most of the time i had a day delay between replies ( so did she ), is this necessary ? Don't want to look too desperate (not that i'm desperate)

I don't really know what i should do next, reply again sort of playfull, cocky or get more serious and chat about what she does etc. or ask her to go get a drink with me ? It's not that i'm that into her, i see this more as a learning experience and want to do things right.
Is there also any good reading material you could recommend me ? Because most posts in this part of the forum are all about opening etc.

Here' what i said ( i had to translate it so in my mother tongue its probally more funny)

Me : How did the swimming go between all the old, slow people ? If you can call that swimming ofcourse :P

Pool Girl: Hahaha, yeah after a few lenghts i already got sorrow ( stiff ? ) in my arms:P
I was really shocked to see you again, you have become really muscular.

Me: Ah so that what you call swimming, do a few lenghts, jump in the jacuzzi and check out the guys. Ofcourse i was the only guy worth checking out, unless you like 70 year old men in tight shorts. :-P

Pool Girl: Actually I like them alot :P, there were also some little guys of 12 years old but that ain't my thing.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 1:20 am ]
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A day between replies is not a bad thing;actually good.

Just match her timing.

If she takes 2 days,feel free to take 2 to reply.

But do not make the mistake of taking too long to reply(which would kill the vibe & momentum).

Well your reply depends on what she says.Keep it playful nevertheless.

Never get serious and chat about what she does.

You dont want to turn this into an interview.

Leave the rapport questions for the comfort phase.

Your goal should still be to attract her.

You cannot get to comfort before attraction.

She will not go drink with you since she doesnt know you.She's not even attracted yet.

But good sequence of messages though.

You're pretty decent at vibing.
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