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Author:  PapaWolf (mikeycasanova) [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 1:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Help with Profile on POF- Comments/Suggestions
So I just started using POF, finished my profile and sent about 20 messages out. I got two messages back gave them my number and both texted me this morning. I could care less about what to do with the girls that texted me what I would like some criticism on is my profile.

I never do online gaming so some community help would be nice. The link is http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile ... d=25518393

Also what is a good rate of feedback.
if 100 messages sent what's a good rate to get back
Author:  hackedheartbleed [ Fri Apr 15, 2011 10:18 am ]
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Message rate varies. I sent out 24 yesterday and received 22 back. Sometimes I'll send 10 and only get 3.

I would get rid of your second picture. Nearly every guy on POF that girls associate as "losers" are shirtless.

I would add more humour into your profile.

This is my about me section:

I’m not exactly your every day average chris, I’m an egotistical son of a **** who likes things my way. I would say that my life is like a Katy Perry album, I’m one of the boys, I’m pretty sure I’ve kissed a girl, I’ve woken up in Vegas (with a huge hangover and a lion in my bathroom), I’m hot and cold (hey, sometimes it’s just absolutely freezing), California girls are indeed undeniable and sometimes I’m a little gay.

It's hugely important that you don't reveal everything about yourself from the get go. You need some mystery. So, I write my profile with banter and it's extremely attractive to women.

My First Date:

It'll be magical. I'll take you to Mcdonalds drive thru and you can buy me a happy meal, you can have anything you want, it's your bloody money ;) Then you can drop me off to my mates and I'll go on guitar hero with you just to show you up. I'm a old fashioned romantic ;)

As you can see, not being serious. I haven't really revealed anything about myself and that is why girls ask me a lot of questions. This allows me to build a connection with her and meet her in the real world.
Author:  AceJack [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 4:37 am ]
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Hey PapaWolf, I like the middle part of your bio (cartoons/SPAM).

Oddly enough I found SPAM to be one of my best wingmen while I'm in the early stages of this pua stuff. One time I texted a HB the monday after I met her at a bar, when she asked 'whos this?' I said 'SPAM' and we role played with it for a little while--she was totally digging it. Sadly once I transistioned to the real me (pretty AFC still =/) the convo went cold haha.

ANYWAYS, I am doing the POF thing too and I was curious as to what kind of success you are seeing... How many girls have initiated contact, and what is the reply rate of messages when you initiate?
Author:  PapaWolf (mikeycasanova) [ Sun Apr 17, 2011 6:46 pm ]
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It's pretty funny actually, i had almost zero expectations when I started POF. Im not a big fan of online dating and meeting but recently I've had a bunch of friends tell me about their success so I just decided to try it out for myself.

I've sent out about 30 messages thus far and have gotten back 8 replies and 2 women have messaged me. Not bad, I guess, for someone who did absolutely no research into it. Or at least I think
Author:  jurupa [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 8:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help with Profile on POF- Comments/Suggestions
If you send out a 100 messages all with the same message at best your reply rate be like 20 at best. Realistically it be 10 tops, which will give you a 1:10 ratio at best. More than likely you will get 5 or so replies back from spamming 100 profiles with the same message. Now if you want higher reply rates, you are going to have to come up with a message tailored to the profile. Granted this wastes more time, but it will generate higher replies.
Author:  kinamod [ Wed Apr 20, 2011 7:43 am ]
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Granted, I'm no expert, but what I've been doing with varied sucess. I have a kind of copied end to my message, but i start with a customised starting line.
SO i'll read the profile to spot something then my message will be like.
(she said something about hating ants...)

subject: you're my 1st antophobe...

I dont know if thats the proper word or not feel free to correct me
:P Whata re you like with bad spelling and lack of punctuation?
SOme people really hate it...
Anyway :) How're you miss "iv been all over the world" what're you
like with other creepy crawlies? DOnt think Iv ever had port...

[Then the generic bit just says:
Anyway... then i chat some stuff about being kinda interesting but i could be totally wrong etc etc

DSJ x x

sometimes ill get a lot of replies, sometimes i'll get a few. I think pof is pretty fickle with that. Same with women in real life though I guess. And its easier to ignore people online.
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