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Author:  Jstud [ Tue Apr 05, 2011 4:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Opening on Facebook. Poke, smiley message? How man messages?

I like to go on facebook and poke them without adding them. If they poke me back or if I cant poke them I message them without adding them a smiley like this :-). When they say how do I know you I say You were on my suggested friends list, I figured I would say whats up and see what your about.

How many messages until I give them my number? What should I change around? Thinking about pick something funny out when possible and making fun of it.

Author:  Nigey [ Wed Apr 06, 2011 12:10 am ]
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Dude avoid the poking and smileys, I'm told they rarely come over as anything other than just a bit creepy...

Author:  Jstud [ Thu Apr 07, 2011 4:26 am ]
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What would be a better approach?

Author:  Breezey [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 9:06 pm ]
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Messages are good. Pokes are creepy. I like your suggested friends idea, combine that in a message with something that makes her qualify herself. I'd use something like:
"Hey, I saw you were on my suggested friends list, but I'm pretty selective about who I add and wanted to make sure you were more than just a pretty face. What about you would make me want to add you?"
Feel free to copy/paste or modify to your pleasure.

Author:  muzztecAFC [ Sun Apr 10, 2011 11:53 am ]
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Quote:
Messages are good. Pokes are creepy. I like your suggested friends idea, combine that in a message with something that makes her qualify herself. I'd use something like:
"Hey, I saw you were on my suggested friends list, but I'm pretty selective about who I add and wanted to make sure you were more than just a pretty face. What about you would make me want to add you?"
Feel free to copy/paste or modify to your pleasure.
What would you say back to
Quote:
I dont know! Because I dont really know you! :S

Author:  Breezey [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 3:10 am ]
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There's a couple classic responses that I think diggidoyo came up with (but I'm not 100% on that so if it was someone else, my bad) that would fit well here. I'd go with either
"Wrong answer. You're no fun. :P"
OR
"You've been online this long and you still don't know me? Sounds like SOMEBODY'S got some catching up to do. :P"

I would always include some kind of smiley for those sorts of things because tone of voice is so hard to project over a written medium, and both of those could sound kind of dickish if it's taken the wrong way.

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