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| Author: | TheDeep [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 9:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do I respond to this... |
OK, here is the background, I am talking to this girl on OKC. We've moved from talking on the website to talking through our personal email. Now, I mention about getting a drink. However she responds "Hypothetically.... if I were interested in a drink  ". She then goes on to give me her schedule for the next week.What do I say next? |
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| Author: | Conan N [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 7:02 pm ] |
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Well I am no PUA, so i dont wanna tell you to say the wrong thing, but I can tell you one thing. If she gave you her schedule without you asking her for it then she must be interested in meeting up. As for the drink thing idk if she was being flirtatious or serious. U should know her personality a lil should be able to decipher. Though if i had to guess id lean to a flirty serious kinda think. |
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| Author: | Brah [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 10:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I respond to this... |
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What do I say next?
This is a simple one. You look at her schedule, find a day that is good for you (let's call it Thursday), then say "See you on Thursday at [bar name] at 8pm". You choose the bar, don't ask her where she wants to go. It's best to choose bars close to your place so you can bring them back with you if things go well. You choose the time also. if the time isn't good for her, she'll let you know. Also, have a close second bar in mind so you can go to a 2nd destination after a couple of drinks if things are going well. |
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| Author: | TheDeep [ Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:04 pm ] |
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OK, so here is how I responded: In the hypothetical situation that we were to meet up for a drink, I would say next Wednesday We have a date next Wednesday. I told her when and where. Now my next move is the first date conversation, looking to create a yes ladder, but I am having difficulty thinking of something original. And also working on conversation topics to discuss, that are interesting and outside of the realm of the normal stuff. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Fri Apr 01, 2011 6:33 pm ] |
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Quote: OK, so here is how I responded:
Firstly, congratulations.In the hypothetical situation that we were to meet up for a drink, I would say next Wednesday We have a date next Wednesday. I told her when and where. Now my next move is the first date conversation, looking to create a yes ladder, but I am having difficulty thinking of something original. And also working on conversation topics to discuss, that are interesting and outside of the realm of the normal stuff. Secondly, don't make too many plans. Creating a 'Yes' ladder? Can't you just talk to her normally and use the right words to hint and insinuate? I dunno man, I've been a Natural for so long, that I think the best way to get a chick is to ''talk'' to her. Routines are sometimes unecessary. Good luck |
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| Author: | anonymousdt [ Sun Apr 03, 2011 6:52 am ] |
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Yeah, well done. She obviously wanted you to ask her out on a free night and you did. And no surprise you got a date. Much like one of the above posters, I wouldn't plan the conversation as much as plan the night. Always have topics (note, topics) of conversation ready if the conversation starts to get stale. But I have a feeling that a quality woman would see right through a planned night's conversation. Anyways, I would plan for the night more than the conversation. Brah is right on the money here. Make sure your place/bedroom is clean just in case things go well. Always plan for another place to bounce to if things get stale. Is there a bowling alley nearby? A place to play pool? A fun place to just walk around and check out the scene? Another bar? Obviously, if things are going fantastic then stay there and go with the vibe, but always have back-up plans. Also, make sure that the venue allows for kino escalation. Don't go to some place where the only thing to do the whole night is to sit across from each other at a table. Pick some bar stools where you got free access to get touchy feely or a place with some kind of activity, ANY kind of activity. |
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