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Author:  JonCa [ Sun Mar 06, 2011 8:14 pm ]
Post subject:  How to handle "where is this going" question

Yo bad boys,
I was wondering what the ideal answer is to that question.
I have met up with this girl a couple of times now and she asked me what my intentions were and where I think this is going.
I just want to meet up to have some fun, whereas she is probably looking for something rather serious (at least I think she is, not 100% sure here). There has been no bedroom action yet so far.

Any advice on how to handle this mean question?
Thanks!

Author:  luthor [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 12:27 am ]
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One word.....honestly!!

Author:  anonymousdt [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to handle "where is this going" question

Quote:
Yo bad boys,
I was wondering what the ideal answer is to that question.
I have met up with this girl a couple of times now and she asked me what my intentions were and where I think this is going.
I just want to meet up to have some fun, whereas she is probably looking for something rather serious (at least I think she is, not 100% sure here). There has been no bedroom action yet so far.

Any advice on how to handle this mean question?
Thanks!
we need more information. When you say "meet up to have fun," what are you talking about? FWB? Friends? Casual dating?

Also, what kind of dates have you gone on? Kissed? Any kino?

Author:  JonCa [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 9:16 pm ]
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thanks for your answer.

dates involved meeting up in a bar, going to the cinema and seeing mutual friends at the pub. pretty casual dating i'd say. kino wise there has been kissing and standard touching like palm-comparing etc..

Author:  Jambi [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 9:24 pm ]
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sounds like a logistics problem with the lack of sex? Just invite her to the cinema tell her to come to yours first. 'check the film times online on your computer which just so happens to be in your bedroom... then say actually I have loads of dvd's and stick a dvd on. Tell her to sit on the bed watch the film and make convo so you both end up not caring about the movie and the rite situation is there.

As far as the question goes don't worry about it. She probably just said that because sheis wondering why you haven't become intimate yet. All you have to say is that she is cool and you want to see where things go.

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