Thanks bones I'm going to try that stuff out it looks promising.
Randy stick at it coz online game has its eureka moments where everything just clicks into place.
I don't use facebook but the post off bones looks like it is worth a try I can see it working. I use P.O.F. and there are some general rules I use which you could probabyl apply.
I'd some some pointers that work for me would be
The dont's :-
1. don't be weird,
2. don't compliment off the bat
3. Be as genuine as you can without kissing ass.
(you're going to have to meet them so make sure its congruent with who you really are).
The do's :-
4. Be indifferent
5. Be genuine
6. Try and relate it to her (probably tricky with this situation), If you know she is playful be playful
Assume creepy is worse than weird but also assume that weird + ballsy P.U.A. material = creepy.
"hey this is going to sound kinda weird but I love your hair how do you keep it looking so healthy ?
If you think it sounds weird, she is definitely going to think its weird especially after you say 'hey this is weird'. You may as well walk up to her face to face flailing your arms around in the air shouting 'I'm being weird because I am weird' lol.
Violation of pointer no.1
So that's no use may as well cut that out of the message. But if you cut out the hey this may sound weird you're left with a compliment by itself. so there goes pointer no.2
The good news is you didn't kiss ass!
But you didn't really hit 4. and 5.
The second one doesn't seem to bad but the great thing about online is you can say oh well who cares and scrap it. So it doesn't work from what you've said so stop using it.
**actually on second reading the second one seems a bit needy, doesnt show indifference. What it shows is that you care enough about the fact she hasn't messaged you and you're broadcasting that to her.**
Sorry I haven't told you exactly what to do but I think its more important for you to understand what not to do at this point and then try coming up with your own ideas because the eureka moments come quicker that way.
hope that gives you some ideas.
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Msg"hey this is going to sound kinda weird but I love your hair how do you keep it looking so healthy ? An my other one is subject "hey " msg" are you like really shy or somthing ???her:why?? Me :because we have been Facebook friends for awhile now an you still havent said hi to me . That one usually never gets a reply anyway I would very much appreciate any tips or any help what so ever maye even someone to kinda coach me because I'm having 0 luck with these hott chicks iv got like one num haha fml