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Author:  pleasureseeker [ Thu Dec 23, 2010 9:38 am ]
Post subject:  Had her super interested 4 days ago, somehow this went wrong
okay I'm an afc I have read the game by style but I'm still too shy to meet girls in real life so I've been practicing online... found one on pof, and then gave her my fb info and she added me. I talked to her twice within a week we just laughed and joked around but she always tried to keep up the convo if I let it die...
Third time talking to her was tonight after about 4 days of giving her space....

Today
[You]
1:07am
her name
[her]
1:08am
helloo
[You]
1:09am
are you by yourself right now or do you have friends over?
[her]
1:09am
why? LOLL
[You]
1:09am
because I don't want to bother you if your occupied
[her]
1:09am
haha my friend is over but shes like falling asleep
LOL
[You]
1:10am
well all right, I had a question
[her]
1:10am
go for it
[You]
1:11am
how many guys have you met on Pof that you've contacted outside the site?
[her]
1:11am
ummm why does it matter? LOL
[You]
1:12am
lol am I the only one?
[her]
1:12am
noopee
i've just been talking to them but they are all eh. so i don't even talk to them haha
[You]
1:13am
haha I don't believe it. well I had a point
I really like who I've talked to so far, and your very pretty, I'm going to be in costa mesa the week after christmas I think that's somewhat close to you,
I'd be happy to meet up with you somewhere public. If your comfortable with it.
see where it might go.
[her]
1:14am
ohh hmm let me knoww
i have a pretty busy schedule with work mostly
[You]
1:16am
I think you can find time. I'm free all next week after monday. Up until new years eve on friday. So tues, wed and thurs. To be honest i'm actually going to be busy myself when I'm in newport, so It may only be for an hour or two, that I can see you.
[her]
1:16am
ohh dang that might be hard then
[You]
1:17am
When do you work?
[her]
1:17am
i don't know my sschedule for next week
they are lagging
and plus, new years is coming up
and i might be in vegas
[You]
1:17am
what?
[her]
1:17am
haha yeapp
[You]
1:17am
your going to be in vegas for new years?
[her]
1:17am
vegas!
[You]
1:17am
are you serious
haha
[her]
1:17am
if i can actually get it off
both days
i am goingg
[You]
1:18am
I'll be there both days as well.
but
I
will most likely be super busy
[her]
1:18am
lol same here
[You]
1:18am
Well how about this.
[her]
1:18am
its vegas!
[You]
1:18am
will you know before christmas?
what days you work?
[her]
1:18am
probablyy
but i'm not really looking for anything at the moment. just letting you know haha
[You]
1:19am
All right, find out what days you'll be free on tues, wed or thurs... and i'll try to fit time.
haha, I know
I'm only trying to see if we have chemistry.
you can't really know anyone online that well.
oh you should probably give me a way to contact you other than facebook chat by the way.
[her]
1:20am
you can't really know anyone online AT ALL
haha
[You]
1:20am
yeah online is fine but, there's so much missing from just reading texts
[her]
1:20am
yeapp
[You]
1:22am
so yeah, you should probably give me another way to contact you don't you think? I usually don't notice when your online.
[her]
1:22am
lol oh trust me
i am so bad at texting or calling people back
no joke hhaha
[You]
1:22am
I didn't mean phone
I meant like an e-mail or something
[her]
1:23am
hahahaha email?!
[You]
1:23am
well
[her]
1:23am
i don't even check my email that often
[You]
1:23am
to be honest phone numbers kind of personal
[her]
1:23am
haha
true
[You]
1:23am
I mean I trust you don't worry, it's just
i mean we've only talked a few times and we did meet online
[her]
1:24am
lolll woww you are very like protective aren't you hahaha
[You]
1:24am
lol uhm I think that it's in my description
haha you did look at my profile didn't you
o_O
[her]
1:25am
lol i don't remember every detail..
but i gottas leep now
so if you ever need to contact me
just message me on fb or somsething
goodnight
[You]
1:25am
how about
you just contact me
when you kjnow your schedule
because i'm not
veyr good at noticing
people online everyone is online
when I sign on
okay?
[her]
1:26am
okk
[You]
1:26am
message me though don't fb chat
I won't notice
goodnight

she signs off a minute later.... so no number, no set schedule, she basically blew me off, Is it able to salvaged from here? this girl is giving me one-itis so I do like her a lot. I was just going to give her space until after new years, then try talking to her again. Also I'm fairly decent looking, but she's also maybe a 9. Also I can Have other 9's and some 8's that I can flirt with on my facebook in front of her to maybe make her jealous... but for some reason I don't like the other 2 girls that like me I have no fucking clue why.

edit: I didn't specifically DHV but my profile does, I talk about finance (stocks) and uhm I talk about events that i'm going too, also All my friends just happen to post on my wall in the time that I knew her.
Author:  skypirate35 [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 12:55 am ]
Post subject: 
because you like her too much the conversation got all serious as you try to manoeuvre yourself into a definite meeting, instead of being fun. Too much over-thinking and trying to be accommodating. that might have ruined future chances.

The second she's being difficult over when she's free, you stop asking. Leave it for another time. Go back to laughing and joking around. You can play a longer game on FB as long as you don't talk too much and end up friendzoned. You can always seem like the cool funny guy with options.
Author:  pleasureseeker [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 1:32 am ]
Post subject: 
so what do I do next?
Author:  skypirate35 [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 2:55 am ]
Post subject: 
well you did say for her to tell her your schedule so if she doesn't then you're free to not talk to her for ages, at least until the new year. talk to some other girls in the meantime. not to make her jealous, just cos you can. leave the odd status comment to keep her on the backburner.

If she hasn't deleted you and you're not otherwise engaged, strike up a fb conversation in january. ask her how xmas went etc. be funny, a couple of those to re-establish your credentials & you'll be good to ask her out again but it's gonna be a long shot. don't get all serious over it.
Author:  pleasureseeker [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:27 am ]
Post subject: 
I spent a shitload of time tonight just randomly messaging HB6+ girls all over dating sites, I just said random ass things and it's cured my oneitis a bit so far, some hot ones have been replying so far too
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