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| Author: | anurizm [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 3:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | can't game in public, seems now no game at all online |
usually I can pick up a girl or two off myspace every now and then, but seems I have lost it all. I feel if you can't succeed at all with online sarging it's time to hang it up, well that's just how I feel at the moment :/ I have 0 game at all, I think a lot of it is because I don't find interest in many things. All I'm really interested in is art and music, that can only go so far. I guess I'm just born a boring person. |
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| Author: | minsok [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 8:39 pm ] |
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I can relate. Sometimes I think I have online game figured out, but then when I need to pull another batch of girls, I can send out 20 messages and not get shit back. I haven't "solved" this, maybe I never will. You don't have any control over whether a girl responds, all you can do is switch out your bait and keep trying. Maybe we are boring, maybe we don't have much to offer a woman, but fact is we can still attract a woman by virtue of being something different, that she hasn't had before. The longer I live, the more I realize that everybody is fucking boring, outside of movies and books and art, there's really no such thing as human nobility and we're all pretty mindless. Some people are just better about lying about it. Oh, except people with mental diseases are consistently interesting, what side of the equation is better? |
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| Author: | Mig [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 1:44 pm ] |
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I spent a lot of time trying to figure out online game and have done well at it. I think the biggest thing I realized recently is to not go over the top on PUA techniques. Tone and facial reaction can't come across online, and so many lines don't work without that. The key to online sarging is coming across as the fun and yet NOT weird guy. So many of the online routines will work, but need to be toned down a bit. The divorce opener is great...but on most girls it needs to just be subtly thrown out there and don't push it too hard. A good/interesting/educated girl will sense a routine if you don't make it flow with the conversation. Minsok - I agree that we are different, and once you have a girl in person you can really let that out, but online we need to just show that we're different enough to be interesting, and yet not weird. Online dating creeps women out and so you have to get their trust first. |
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