Here's the story:
FYI: before u read this, I am talking to other girls, just very interested in this one...shes seems to be my type.
2 months ago.....
I friend requested this hb8and1/2 and she accepted my friend request on fb. I FB chat'd her first time i saw her online and we both seem to have a lot in common...both being recently single non the least as am i. I was funny at the end and got her digits.
Come to find out! her best friend goes out with an old friend of mine from high school and we happen to be pretty good friends back then. I know all this because she is constantly posting on my old friend wall on fb. Havnt' seen him in over 6 years though.
Meantime: I have this hb's number but i DO NOT text or call her at all. We just messsage back and forth on FB chat....and i never brought up the fact that i know her friend and friends bf and she doesnt bring it up either
Here's where it gets sticky:
and this recently...2 weeks ago. I run into her best friend and my old friend from h.s at a bar. I go up to my old friend and say hello and his gf goes "oh so you been talking to ....(hb)...." I respond saying "yeah she seems really cool, I havnt' met her yet but you guys should all come out w me sometime" Her friend then tells me that we would be cute together and she put in a good word for me/thought i was cute u blah blah. I respond saying "lol " and change topics.
So back to talking to hb online on fb chat after all this has happened:
Was 3-4 days after and the weekend had past. Small talk at first...I mentioned how i ran into her two friends and she goes "i heard" so i switched topics(she obvs knows or had somethin to them so thast good?)..... i asked her how her weekend was, she said she went to a bar that i hate. She asked why i hate it, i told her because its always a huge sausage fest. She "lol" and said she loved it because she drank for like nothing. I respond "must be nice to have tits and ass"
She then says "yeah but its all douchbag loser guys".....I throw in "well stop playing with those losers, i'll teach you to win" She replies with a "lol
"I then cut the convo short and say i'm heading out this saturday nite(i dont give a time), would u like to meet up she replies: "sure"
....DUDe then... i text this hb at like 7:30 sat nite when we agreed to meet up, she doesnt rite back until almost 11pm!! i'm already out!! she tells me she cant tointe shes tired and about to go to sleep, long day at work.i say ok well have a good nite, another time?? she says yeah for sure. havn't texted or heard from her since via text or online.
I was thinking freeze out for a week or two, then text her during the week and invite her to say....a hockey game via text but get tickets for a game like 2-3 weeks in advance?
Advice please?
what sort of trouble have you been into kiddo?" then just continue the convo, set up another hang out but if she flakes again Id move onto the next one