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| Author: | NoQQMoarPewPew [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 1:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Transitioning to Phone Game |
Hey guys, I went out with this girl on Saturday, and it went extremely well (k-close) and multiple IOIs. However since I can't see or hang out with her (she lives 100 miles south) everyday, how can I transition from IM game to phone game? She uses IM a lot and I sense that while it does give me time to think, it's very quick to get stale. I'm also curious how can I keep the relationship fresh, I don't want to barrage her with questions like an AFC. EDIT: I suppose it goes without mention, how can I make phone game a successful endeavor? What should I avoid and more importantly what should I pursue in successfully generating attraction via phone game when she lives 100 miles away? |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 2:43 pm ] |
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Hey NoQQMoar PewPew,dont mean to be an asshole,but you should've f-closed this girl the 1st.date,rather than settling for a kiss close,unless the lay was logistically impossible. There's no gurantee she'll grant you a 2nd date. You'r essentially going backwards in your game. You had a chance,you did go out with her,but you're now worrying about phone game. If you'd laid her,no need to fret phone game. Anyway,Wow,this' the 2nd time I'd actually seen a guy get a girl on a date,to now worry about phone game. The point of transitioning to phone game is to set up a meet/date. That's the sole point of phone game;not to have an hour long convo'. So you had your shot at the date but blew it!! So what will you try to acheive now from phone game? You're doing it backwards. You should've already been phone gaming this girl prior to day 1(date 1)unless you met her during cold approach and went on an instant date. If it's a LTR(relationship)you want,you still going about it wrong. Your goal should be to lay her,then the talk of LTR comes in. We guys tend to think that the longer we wait to f-close her,it means she's gf material. Longer you wait,more she'll get fed up. So your 1st goal shouldnt be to make her your gf,but to lay her,then make her your gf. It's a natural transition that after laying most girls,they're gonna want to cling which'll lead to the LTR. Since you'd already went out with her,phone game is no prob-just call her,share 1-2 DHV stories,set up a date 2,lay her,then LTR. |
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| Author: | NoQQMoarPewPew [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:23 pm ] |
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K-loc, I get what you're saying but there are three special circumstances that prevented a full close on the first date. One was the fact that she had a massive time constraint. By the time we got around to the k-close it was time for her to go. Girl had a 9:30 curfew, I still got her home by 10:30. So I was pressing my luck. Two, I had zero sexual location to perform this manuever at the moment, at a trailhead bench on a cold night was hardly ideal in a city I was visiting? Which still falls on me which is my fault regarding logistics. The last important one and is a major roadblock is that the girl is a virgin. I know from experience and others that rushing that is no way helpful, and will do the opposite effect. Scare her away. So there would be the reasons why I couldn't f-close, if it were the first two I'd totally agree. However that last roadblock is a major one and I was not prepared for it at all. The only reason I'm stressing Phone game is because until I see her again, IM is going to be insufficient to keeping her attraction lit, it displays little congruency. The human element is sucked dry, like text game. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:37 pm ] |
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Ok,I definitely get it now that you added details(lol);my bad. Well,you mad a decent case for not pushing an f-close since she's a virgin. Better off transitiong to phone game than IM;I get you 100% now. Since yall already met,I dont see phone game as a big prob'. There should be no awkward vibes. Have a few DHV stories to share. Since she's a virgin,take it light on your stories or you would be raising your social value too high for a virgin. So rather than telling her a short story about making out in clubs,tell her about the time you snuck in a mansion with friends to swim in the pool and got caught... You get the picture. |
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| Author: | NoQQMoarPewPew [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:43 pm ] |
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Now you get my reasoning. I am curious, should I start weening her off communicating? Maybe talking to her every 2-3 days or will I lose attraction/comfort built by doing this? I can't talk with her girl everyday for hours on end, I'm going to run out of shit to say. Mind giving me a few examples of "light" DHV stories? I don't want canned material but a few more examples might make it easier to find experiences in my life to share. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 8:34 pm ] |
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There's no reason to freeze her out. This girl is yours as far as I see it(lol). DHV stories:Baically make stuff up based on your life. DHV stories are to convey interesting things about yourself without bragging. Im a fluent Spanish speaker(I'd learnt it),so I usually tell DHV stories which conveys that Im well travelled. So rather than saying,"I know Spanish",which would be bragging. I'd tell a made-up DHV story like this: "Years ago I'd quit my job and moved Mexico for a few months.Met a cool girl,fell in love until I fount out she's a drug pusher.I was so friggin' devastated". Now,I just made that up based on me knowing Spanish. That short DHV story conveys to the target that Im a traveller,spontaneous,independent,wild,know a second language... All of which are attractive to women. I also do poetry so I'd tell a DHV story about the time I got booed off stage at a poetry show. The DHV comes in the fact that I know poetry and Im brave enough to preform infront of others,despite being booed. So the DHV story doesnt have to have a good ending,as long as it conveys an attractive quality about you. |
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