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Author:  VSS [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 12:30 am ]
Post subject:  Help before I ruin this date!

So I was reviewing the online posts and found a great thing to write from the sticky...

"The Match Chat I think was having some issues. You seem like a really easy person to talk to so let me level with you. I think you are polite, have a big heart, and are very attractive! I'd really like the opportunity to take you out for some coffee with conversation or dinner sometime. =) I just have this feeling that you're a great person and I'd like to get to know you better.

You are welcome to message me back here or if you want you can shoot me a text. xxx-xxx-xxxx Jon"



and sent it to a girl on Plentyoffish, adjusting it of course and it worked. This is the following messages...

Girl:
"Well thank you very much for that =]
I'm kind of busy this coming week with school and work but maybe over the weekend
i'll have some time. it would be nice.

Me:
Yeah, me too, I am busy this week with work so the weekend would be great. There are a couple of coffee shops I like around USF (Sacred Grounds and Kaleisia tea lounge)and there's this really cool speakeasy on bayshore. Have you heard of them before?

Girl:
never heard of them, but that does sound pretty sweet.

Now I do not want to fuck this up and I feel like I need to build some more rapport. What should I do/write next?

Author:  The Web Womanizer [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 6:41 am ]
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She already said she would go out with you maybe over the weekend, right? You told her about the coffee shops, and she said that they sounded sweet, right? The next obvious move would be to ask her to join you and setup the time and place to get together. Make sure she gives you her number in case something comes up and you need to cancel or to just call and confirm. This is pretty straightforward. There is not reason for any lines or routines here. If she isn't comfortable with giving you her number and setting up the date, THEN you can ask her some questions to build a bit more rapport. If you need help, then PM me.

Author:  Mig [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 2:26 pm ]
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Web Womanizer, I disagree a little bit. I think this girl isn't overly excited over the conversations so far. She has just been politely responding.

VSS, you need to build some attraction and comfort. I'd run the divorce routine (which you can find by searching on this section of the forums), just to get her interest, then see if she'll add you on Facebook (I always make her find me by my email) then you can jokingly call her a stalker and give her a nickname. From Facebook, get her # and start running some text messaging game.

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 7:16 pm ]
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she didnt respond great IMO

she woulda gave you her number if shes was interested

it was a really nice sweet message which is why you got a reply me thinks but girls dont find that attractive

you need to be more of a challenge

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