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Author:  ConspiracyTheory [ Tue Oct 26, 2010 3:31 pm ]
Post subject:  questions about facebook game
I see there are lots of threads in here about facebook game, so much so that I'm wondering if it's become saturated. However, gaming girls on facebook seems kind of weird / almost taboo to me. In fact, that's an opener I'm going to use IRL :!:

So on with my questions...

1. Who are you gaming? direct friends (usually girls you met IRL and added), friends of friends, or random girls you find somehow.
I've done the first one and that seems fine, it's the other 2 that are weird to me. With friends of friends you run the risk of damaging your rep if you come off like a creeper it will surely get back to your mutual friend and potentially other girls.

2. How are you finding random girls and how do you get past the "why are you messaging me?" / "do i know you?" barrier?

3. How quickly do you friend request them? Or just wait until they request you?

4. How do you #close and meet up with them? How soon?
I assume just like real life gaming you would eventually mention something cool you are already doing and that she would be welcome to come along (could even invite to a facebook event). Then you exchange numbers if she agrees.
Author:  a40536 [ Tue Oct 26, 2010 3:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: questions about facebook game
Hi, ConspiracyTheory,
Humm, after complaining about online game yesterday you are now asking questions about it hahaha.

Here is some brief answers to your questions.
1. Who are you gaming? direct friends (usually girls you met IRL and added), friends of friends, or random girls you find somehow.

I Usually do random girls, or freinds of freinds. once i have a girls number i usually just chat to her via txt or in person unless she starts up a convo with me on facebook.

2. How are you finding random girls and how do you get past the "why are you messaging me?" / "do i know you?" barrier?

Search girls names, getting past the barier is very easy indeed :)

3. How quickly do you friend request them? Or just wait until they request you?

You do not, until you have messaged them, then you make the freind requesting to be her or fun.

4. How do you #close and meet up with them? How soon? I assume just like real life gaming you would eventually mention something cool you are already doing and that she would be welcome to come along

That is one technique, although i usually try and get the number before hand, if that fails then yes.

5. I see there are lots of threads in here about facebook game, so much so that I'm wondering if it's become saturated.

Currently it is defently not saturated, just like dating sites, there is so many guys doing it wrong, aslong as you do it right you should get good sucess.

6. gaming girls on facebook seems kind of weird / almost taboo to me. In fact, that's an opener I'm going to use IRL

I would not call it taboo in todays society, back in 2005, then most certainly but now, not really, also I would not use it as an opener myself, girls dont like to think they are being gamed, as this makes it sound manipluative.
Author:  ConspiracyTheory [ Tue Oct 26, 2010 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: questions about facebook game
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Hi, ConspiracyTheory,
Humm, after complaining about online game yesterday you are now asking questions about it hahaha.
I know, I'm such a hypocrite right? Actually my complaint was with dating sites like POF and OKC. Never tried to meet girls on facebook so I'm curious to see if it's any better.
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3. How quickly do you friend request them? Or just wait until they request you?

You do not, until you have messaged them, then you make the freind requesting to be her or fun.
Sounds like you do something I've been doing IRL where I tell girls "I don't add just anybody, you have to earn your way on to my facebook".
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also I would not use it as an opener myself, girls dont like to think they are being gamed, as this makes it sound manipluative.
LOL, the opener wouldn't be about gaming, it would go something like "hey, do you get messaged by a bunch of random guys on facebook? ... because my friend Jess was telling me the other day blah blah blah blah"
Author:  a40536 [ Tue Oct 26, 2010 9:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: questions about facebook game
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I know, I'm such a hypocrite right? Actually my complaint was with dating sites like POF and OKC. Never tried to meet girls on facebook so I'm curious to see if it's any better.
POF and Social networks are diffrent envirments, on social networks girls are not looking for dating so you need to be more indirect, where as on dating sites the girls are there to be picked up.
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Sounds like you do something I've been doing IRL where I tell girls "I don't add just anybody, you have to earn your way on to my facebook".
Essentially it is that.
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LOL, the opener wouldn't be about gaming, it would go something like "hey, do you get messaged by a bunch of random guys on facebook? ... because my friend Jess was telling me the other day blah blah blah blah"
Humm besides the jess bit, i think i read about a guy already using almost exactly this opener hahaha
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