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Author:  itapua [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 4:48 pm ]
Post subject:  FB messaging, how to transition?
So I was rushing to class at my uni with a few friends, and noticed a chick that we used to go to the same school together.

Already had her fb, so I thought itd be a good oportunity to send a PM her way.. need help transitioning the convo and getting her number, to move on the next level..

Here's the conversation:

Subject: Question?
ombadboy - 8:20PM: I was curious whether you were in *uni name* area today?

HB - 8:22PM: heh yes I was at one stage :p

ombadboy - Next day 1:45PM: Mm.. thought I saw a familar face, thought it was a criminal from the news but figured out I might have been wrong :P .. What were u doin around there? Studying at *uni* ?

HB - 2:30PM: hehe no am at *another uni*!:p i was there because i was waiting for to meet a friend for lunch:) are you at *uni*?


Any ideas?

thanks alot!
Author:  zrsahai [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  HOOK
you need a hook
something that avoids the awkwardness of you purposely qualifying her or you DHVing to her
if you guys have anything else in common (friends, sport teams, etc) ask her about that then pull it to something that she might be into now
your best is looking at her profile and crossreferencing the info w/ wall posts to find out what she does often and asking her something semi-random about that
you could say "i noticed you were into the jersey shore or you're into thriller books etc"
Author:  itapua [ Wed Oct 06, 2010 11:24 pm ]
Post subject: 
replied before I see the response, but I think it worked fine, now just need to keep the convo goin.. DHV a bit here and there, neg a bit, and get an IM/phone asap..

here's what i wrote:
Quote:
I'll have a wild guess and go for Wasabi! I'd like my prize now ;)

Bingo! Cookie for barbie! *uni* here, am finishing my BSc this year and heading for postgrad after this.. more years.. more fun, especially after these crazy 2 years over here, you just cant get enough!
and her reponse:
Quote:
Haha sry for breaking the news to u bt no.. Wrong guess:p we went and had *food*:p she doesn't rly like sushi :p
have you decided what Master's ur doing?:) and no need to ask, you'll continue your studied in *city* right?:p
any tips/pointers are greately appreciated, wont answer back till 2moro ;)
Author:  Mig [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 4:09 am ]
Post subject: 
I think you're going down a road where she might quickly become bored. Your messages are fun but sort-of lack a direction. I mean...the goal here is to get her # so you can text her and so you can setup a date. The way to do that is to get a rapid/fun conversation going. Sometimes throw out a short message that is still a "hook" as Zrsahai said. I like the "divorce opener" listed in this Online Sarging forum. It works like a charm, and adapt it a little bit depending on the girl. NEVER use it word for word...wouldn't want her Googling it and find your source!
Author:  itapua [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 10:10 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
I think you're going down a road where she might quickly become bored. Your messages are fun but sort-of lack a direction. I mean...the goal here is to get her # so you can text her and so you can setup a date. The way to do that is to get a rapid/fun conversation going. Sometimes throw out a short message that is still a "hook" as Zrsahai said. I like the "divorce opener" listed in this Online Sarging forum. It works like a charm, and adapt it a little bit depending on the girl. NEVER use it word for word...wouldn't want her Googling it and find your source!
totally agree with your here, I understand that I need to get stuff more interesting asap, and thats why am asking here for a few tips on how to change the convo to something more interesting heading towards an IM/# . Using the divorce routine I would recon is a bit late now since I already got her replying?


I've also notived she's been using a BB for facebook, and her last message was sent from phone. As I have a BB as well, I could use that to get her PIN , or you recon it's too early? Seeing she has it already posted on her profile, I doubt she is too picky to whom she gives it too.. and then I can start a text game ;)

edit: also I find it a tad lenghty, somewhere around the 3rd or 4th post I see it gettin a bit boring lets say.. given that there also have been a few messages between us already..
Author:  itapua [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 6:33 pm ]
Post subject: 
also, i was thinking of using the 'mirror' routine as a hook if it's absolutely necessary to go for a routine..

i think that would work better than the divorce one?


what do you guys think? need some opinions asap as my replies are gettin slow and might lose any interest that may have been created on her side..

tnx
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