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| Author: | darkon [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 4:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | I havent decided if your a creepy stalker or... |
Okay so I found this girl on POF website and got her number the other day. We still haven't met. I am kind of busy with finding a new job and preparing for college. I have been texting her a little bit so far I am looking for criticism/suggestions on what I should do now. Here is my texts to her so far... -------- Sept 26 ME: Have you met prince charming yet? (6:34PM) HB: Not quite yet (6:35PM) Sept 28 ME: Hows life up in xxx? (4:57PM) HB: Boring and work filled (5:17PM) ME: Are you going to work and be bored all night? Or do you have plans? (5:34PM) HB: Just work and bored (5:40PM) ME: Thats too bad. If you could be doing anything right now what would it be? (5:46PM) HB: Home watching movies (5:49PM) ME: What if movies didn't exist? Then what would you do? (6:00PM) HB: I'd probably go on a walk. Or else cook something (6:13PM) ME: Walks are fun. I like wandering and exploring. Are you going to cook for me when we hang out? I guess I could help you I make great tortilla soup! (6:51PM) (I feel like I messed up here what do you think?) HB: We're gonna hang out? (7:56PM) ME: I dunno... I havent decided if your a creepy stalker or not yet. (8:42PM) HB: I am. (8:49PM) -------- Okay so that is everything thus far. What should my next text be? Date ideas? Critique/suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Also she lives in a town an hour drive away from me... I have a car. She has a car. I don't mind driving that far, but don't want to seem desperate. Thanks guys. -Darkon- |
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| Author: | anonymousdt [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:34 pm ] |
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feels to me like you're asking too many questions. It seems like an interview. She's bored. The stalker line was good, and it pretty much saved the interaction, but I think it may be too early to ask for a meetup. Your next text should be something interesting, not just another question like "so what did you have for lunch?" tell a little story, or a fun fact, or something related to something in her profile maybe. make it fun (like the stalker line, that was fun). it's hard to judge. I don't know what she is like, or you are like, or your POF interactions have been before the texting. maybe you are really good looking or she seems lonely and you could push hard. maybe not. |
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| Author: | darkon [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 6:35 pm ] |
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=+=+=+ Okay a little about me: I am very good looking 6'6" and muscular. (HB9's check me out when I walk by) I have good alpha male body language. I can kino escalate. I don't like to talk on the phone or text... but I should probably work on this. (afraid of running out of things to talk about/unsure what I should say) I tend to be a shy loner, and distance myself from groups... unless I know everyone. =-=-=- What I know about her: She has 4 good pictures that all look up to date. I would say she is HB6... when she smiles shes an HB8. She lives in a small town. She works as a food server. Her about me section: I cook. I watch movies. I listen to music. I play video games. I dance. I have tattoos. I like tattoos, but they are not a requirement in someone I like. I know what I want and I know what I like. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our online interaction I just did the Perfect Internet Game WOAH w w w .pick-up-artist-forum. c o m /perfect-internet-game-woah-vt39020.html and I got her phone number. All our texts are posted above. I just got this text last night but haven't responded... HB: In fact I'm so much of a stalker that I don't even know who this is lol (12:16am) So apparently she doesn't know I am the guy she talked to online. Should I be like... You need help. Ever thought of seeing a psychiatrist? or tell her my name? Im xxx xxx biatch! |
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| Author: | hex [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 7:53 pm ] |
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This interaction is jacked. You bored her to death with all our questions. I can tell that you've been getting those questions from somewhere and they seem unnatural and random. Learn to make statements instead of asking questions and for god's sake, make them fun. She does not seem interested. |
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| Author: | darkon [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 8:40 pm ] |
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hex I appreciate the constructive criticism, but I am a little confused... can you give me an example of a statement you would say? or maybe something I can read to learn this? you said this interaction is jacked... so you think I should throw in the towel? where do I go from here? I just sent this: ME: Hey stalker please dont message me after 12 I need my beauty sleep and my name is xxx HB: Ok I wont. You need all the beauty sleep you can get. I figured it was you. My crazy ex-husband. (Me being her ex hubby is part of an inside joke) |
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| Author: | anonymousdt [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 10:27 pm ] |
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ok so that makes a little more sense. I can see why she is still around. it sounds like there was some fun POF messaging, and she is probably attracted to you physically. so, to get at what Hex was saying. the questions are all over the place and have no grounding. so if you want to ask if she was bored say something like "i was over in [her area] running an errand, and man was that place was BORING. nothing is happening over there. you must be bored out of your mind?" or "i was out running errands and i saw this crazy lady hanging out in her car with binoculars . that was you wasn't it? i didn't know you were stalking more than one guy!" questions should be fun and interesting (those were just examples off the fly, you should make them up appropriate to the situation). and then stick on the subject, or subtly shift it. don't just fly into random questions about what she does in spare time or something. and speaking of bored, she told you she was bored...that is a nice sign that she is looking for something to do...with you! your last text was good. I would strike soon, while the iron is hot. you'll have to feel out the situation but in the near future you could say something like "so my giant fingers are getting sore from all this texting. maybe we should just meet up to discuss the restraining order. but only if you promise not to cut off a lock of my hair for your shrine at home" (that might be too much). OR send a tester text to make sure she is home and at her phone, then just call her out of the blue and ask her out. if she doesn't pick up, well then take two steps back. good luck! |
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| Author: | darkon [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:30 pm ] |
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anonymousdt wtf man? where do you come up with this **** its GOLDEN!?! thx bro! |
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| Author: | hex [ Thu Sep 30, 2010 4:26 pm ] |
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Anonymousdt gave you some good advice and interpreted my post correctly. Good luck and please let us know how it goes. Get her on the phone ASAP and invite her out!!!! |
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