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| Author: | jonmo90 [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Take online conversation to sexual |
How do I make online conversation sexual? How do I ease into it without jumping in the sex straight forward? How long should I wait before making conversation sexual? How do I get the woman to get interested in having sex with me? |
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| Author: | Triskelion [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:57 pm ] |
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I wouldn't mind seeing ideas here as well. Although I believe you should switch to phone or actually meeting with her and taking it sexuel only from there on. What kind of sets the mood might be to subtly work in the words "sauna" (eg. in a list of hobbies or a story) and "massage" (you want to take classes, she might offer to go together) and see how she reacts. |
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| Author: | Graybeard [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 8:29 am ] |
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I can't say this will work as well with others as it does for me. But this is what I do. If a girl compliments my looks when we first talk i'll return it by telling them they are attractive. I don't say "hot". I simply say attractive. If she doesn't say anything right away, I'll sneak it in a bit later. So that part of everything is out of the way. She knows I'm attracted and odds are i'll get a reply of sorts on it. There is no timeline as to when I first turn things to being sexual. If I had to guess it would be 30 minutes to an hour in. I'm not raunchy with it. The key is to bring up kissing. I'll give a few examples here. If the girl doesn't speak for awhile I may say "why the delay? Are you busy thinking about making out with me?" Maybe it isn't a delay but she may say some crap about needing to cuddle or snuggle because she's cold. I'd just say "well cuddling almost always leads to kissing and if you're going to make out with me then be warned now that I don't make out unless I get to use my hands". Pretty much anything that gets said will lead me to say something similar to this. If I have a girl thinking about doing that with me and allowing my hands on her and able to wander, it's pretty clear that it wouldn't be a "cuddle buddy" situation. So you've introduced the idea of kissing with wandering hands. You rarely get a bad response to this. It's almost always either "Is that so?" where you say "mhmm" or they will flat out ask "where would your hands end up? or "what would you do with your hands?". I just go into some sort of description of what would happen. The thing is, if you say something sexy, they are always going to be curious about you that way from there on out. I can go into sex talk at almost anytime from then on. It's accepted and it's just a matter of how much I want to push it. If you sell the dream to her, then a phone call and meeting up are just a formality. If you do it right, she's going to want to get to know you, she's going to want to meet and she's going to want to sample the goods. We've all had some quest, like having a song in our head and just needing to remember who sings the song. It drives you crazy until you find out the answer. If you get a girl curious enough about you sexually which isn't hard to do, she's going to make it happen. You are just maintaining everything until then really. In other words, doing what's necessary to not screw it up. You just have to come across as you know what turns a woman on. But the whole kiss thing I said is usually the pathway to this. Sometimes a girl will say she is cold or needs a massage. That is more often than not an open invitation to you to say that you could help her out with that. You can go into sex talk that way as well. Just say something like "you know, it wouldn't be long before i was rubbing places on you that aren't sore". |
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