You guys meeting? She coming to you? you to her?
Per the mmethod & lovedrop, I'd have her come to your pad.
Have her meet you outside your house/apt. then suddenly realize you forgot something. Invite her in, give a FTC "It'll be a few minutes but I gotta go look for my wallet/keys/SPAM card etc. Make yourself at home. " Have her wait in a common area like the living room and disappear for like 2 mins. Then come back and leave.
*If the evening goes well and youre game is tight she wont feel as awkward and unsure of the unknown setting such as your house/ apt when you go back. Higher chance of her coming back inside.
As far as the date goes...plan it out. Have multiple venues or places to visit the entire night. Of coarse make it seem like its all spontenious when you bounce to another venue (DHV). With every different venue it'll be like a different experience and date.
Stay away from movie theaters or places w/ 0 or little interaction. Anyplace w/ a social setting is great.
Make the interaction genuine. Connect. And have fun.
o yea don't forget to gradually kino. Then escalate. By the time you get back to your place at the end of the night. there should be enough sexual tension that shed want to come back into your house or at the very least kiss you.
hope this helps
