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Author:  Zeras [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Urgent: in a triangle between two girls
Here's the deal, after moving abroad five years ago I came back to my "home" country for a short visit to see my family and enjoy the beach. Earlier this week I used facebook to contact A, who is one of my x-classmates and who I thought might be worth hooking up with for the time Im here (she replied and was eager to hear from me, but I havent sent anything back for a few days since it wasnt a priority).

Today I was going home from the beach, looking the kind of "God, I hope no one I know sees me right now" type of rugged (no shirt or shoes, wearing shorts, havent shaved in a week, hair a mess) when I see B, a girl who reminded me of a HB I really liked back in high school (pre-PUA days, many years ago). I look at her as she's cute and smile as usual and when she smiles back I realized that she IS the girl from high school. Holy crap. It was my stop so I left the train without saying anything. (AFC move?)

I suspect that A and B stay in touch, and that B will soon find out that it was indeed me who she saw on the train.
My priorities are:
1) Meet up with A and see where that leads.
2) Use A to get in touch with B again and see where *that* leads.
Strictly speaking I have more chances with A then B, though B is hotter. Pragmatically, I'd like to have sex with both.

What are your thoughts as to what I should do next?

A few concerns: if I mention the train meeting to A in my next message and ask her to "Say hi to B for me", will this ruin my chances with A as she might assume I'm only contacting her again to use her as a messenger? And would it be best to wait until I ask her to do that so that B might stay in the uncertainty of not knowing whether I will contact her again or not?

Any other thoughts?
Author:  a40536 [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Urgent: in a triangle between two girls
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I look at her as she's cute and smile as usual and when she smiles back I realized that she IS the girl from high school. Holy crap. It was my stop so I left the train without saying anything. (AFC move?)

A few concerns: if I mention the train meeting to A in my next message and ask her to "Say hi to B for me", will this ruin my chances with A as she might assume I'm only contacting her again to use her as a messenger? And would it be best to wait until I ask her to do that so that B might stay in the uncertainty of not knowing whether I will contact her again or not?

Any other thoughts?
lol ok first you should have stayed on for just a extra stop or two and approached b who cares how bad you look, it shows confidence the fact you are approaching her looking bad you could even make a joke about it, a girl can relate to always meeting people she knows when she isnt (for want of a better word) looking her best.

it seems silly to use a to get a message to b as you *may* get freindzoned from a... becuase it seems like you couldent find b on facebook so contacted a.. so try and meet up with b... SO FIND B on facebook and contact her yourself :)

Arrange a meet either seperately or with both at the same time and whatever you do have some fun :) but whatever you do "leave them better than you found them" :)
Author:  Zeras [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 10:01 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice, Jtaz. Good point about talking to her. I'll make a note of that for future encounters :)

I sent A a normal message continuing our conversation from before without mentioning meeting B. I also just found B on facebook. Should I message her tonight, or wait a bit longer before doing so?
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but whatever you do "leave them better than you found them"
That's my motto :)
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