Ok so I recently set up a POF profile and messaged two women who I got responses from. The first one I just dropped a line with a question and she responded, after a message or two back and forth I gave her my number, and she gave me her's.
Question here is, what do I do now? How long do I wait to message her, should I play hard to get and wait to see if she messages me first? Here is the Message as it was delivered to me. (Numbers blocked obviously)
ME:Well I gotta bounce off of here, meeting some friends for a poker game. But you seem pretty cool, I don't think I have to worry about you being a stalker or anything
Here's my cell, hit me up with a text some time if you like.
xxx-xxx-xxxx
Her: im a crazy stalker!
haha jk.. ok cool well heres my number as well, xxx-xxx-xxxx-names alex, good luck at ur poker game.Second question is about the other girl, I had seen her profile and it said that she liked redheads so I thought what the hell and added her to my favorites since I was still getting my profile together and wanted to message her. I sent the following message;
Me: You are probably wondering why I added you to my favorites, and it was simply because you seem like a fun girl, and you said that you liked red heads as well, which I just so happen to be
Anyways I'm just on here for friends right now and you seem like somebody cool so I was curious if you would be interested in chatting or something.
Bet you thought this was gonna be a cheesy come-on huh? Your not THAT special! (Joking)]/b]
(Her response did not come until two days after reading my message)
Her:Well yes I was wondering...at first I thought it was maybe something you do on a regular basis to just get attention
but, I do love those red heads so...I don't really respond to a lot of these messages, but your red hair and sense of humor make an exception. So, hope you're having a good weekend! Maybe hear from ya later Again same thing here, I got her interested, but not sure how to proceed! I'm excited but I feel lost as to what to do.
HALP!!!!