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Author:  Nix [ Sun Jun 13, 2010 12:40 am ]
Post subject:  Fri Night Meetup #1

I've been talking to this chick on a dating site and we decided to meet up. She was the one who initiated the contact and was really into meeting up... so I was a bit skeptical due to my past online experiences.

We met up at a bar, she arrived first and was already seated at the bar when I walked in; to my surprise she was actually... hot. A decent HB7.5-8, pretty face with a body filled out in all of the right places.

So we get drinks, we each bought our own first drink, and got comfortable at a table. This chick was super into me online so I'm thinking at this point all I have to do is "not fuck up". I used a lot of spontaneous cocky funny, push pull with her and we were laughing almost the entire time. I threw in 3-4 negs the entire night doing them with a cheeky grin because there was nothing I needed to disarm. I have a sticking point with kino but my downfall worked in this situation because she was initiating some light kino and my lack of skill in that area built tension. It built tension to the point where she was increasing the kino more and more to the point where she was almost lying on me and positioning her lips right under mine obviously looking for a kiss. So at that point I initiated the first kiss; and we only kissed a couple of times in the bar but nothing heavy, I did this on purpose to build more tension and have her wanting it bad.

It was getting kind of late so I say we should head out, she looked disappointed because she thought I was ready to go home. We head to our cars and at that point I let loose and start making out with her on my car; I then invite her into my car and she happily jumps in. So we are going hot and heavy in my little coupe and as I am running the bases I get stopped at 3rd. I back off and try again a few minutes later and again stopped. So I freeze her out for about five minutes with talk but not laying a finger on her or kissing her which she is dying for. She scoots over and gets as close to me as she can and starts making out with me, I then get to 3rd base.

She did not say it but I could tell she wanted to spend the night with me, in her mind I don't think she planned on fucking but I am pretty sure I could have gotten it there; I was about an hour away from my place (I was staying at a buddy's) and she lives with her parents so finding a bed was a stretch at this point in the night. We kiss some more then go our separate ways.

This should be a F close in the very near future.

Lessons -
if the chick is really into you let her do the work
making her laugh is one of the best things you can do
find common interests so she feels closer to you at a quicker pace
freezing her out works great on LMR
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I need to work on initiating kino and learning to properly escalate
We were both quite buzzed, I need to work on my game to the point where I do not need this assistance

This one was an easy one because she was already attracted; I need a LOT of work but look forward to continually learning.

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