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| Author: | Eric Lercara [ Wed Jun 09, 2010 8:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to Screen for the Right Girls |
You may be at a point where you’ve developed a selective taste about women. Maybe you’ve dated a lot of women and know how to tell the difference between a spoiled girl and an attractive woman. Maybe you’re tired of feeling manipulated by women. Maybe you hate girls with entitlement issues. This is where screening comes in. You can screen out the kinds of girls you don’t like. State your boundaries clearly in your profile. Make it clear what kind of behaviors you do and don’t accept. If, for instance, you want to screen out disrespectful behavior, you can say: “I love a woman who understands the importance of respect in a relationship from the very beginning.” Notice how it is positive, but strong. Saying “I can’t stand disrespectful women” is strong but negative. This statement actually accomplishes two things. First, it lets the girl know what you want. Second, it sets the frame for her to fall into, if she likes you. She knows she will be rewarded for respecting you. That’s another key element – the reward. Therefore, it will only attract the kind of girl you want. The ones you don’t want will move on. Personally, I like to combine the screener with the reward. Here’s a favorite of mine: “I love a woman who is comfortable in her soft skin.” It lets her know, in a very subtle way, that I like a woman who is sexually secure – and it rewards her with a compliment to her femininity. Girls who are prudish won’t be wasting your time (these girls do tend to exist online, unfortunately). And, the girls who are into you, will be more likely to want to give you the gift of their softness. Screening is a great way to ensure you only meet the kinds of women you’re naturally attracted to. Plus, many women are turned on by a guy who has selective taste - it shows he has options. |
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