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Author:  se7in [ Wed Jun 09, 2010 6:23 pm ]
Post subject:  number closed...now what?

Ive been messaging an hb8 back and forth over match.com. Ive been using alot of c&f asking questions to be interesting. After a few messages, she ended up saying "so, tell me more about yourself" to which I replied "id love to talk about each other, you should give me your number and well set something up". She gave me her number and I dont know where to go from here. texting back and forth would be just like messaging online. my phone game is horrible. Any suggestions?

Author:  vdubber247 [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:46 pm ]
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im in the same situation.
mins an HB7.5 or 8 as well.
heres what i am doing.
i opened with a routine based mainly in my deep understanding of her
telling her general truisms and such.
i got the number close by telling her a voice or face to face meeting would be nessecary to further this emotional connection we have.

i used a few nlp lines and peppered in some negs and dhv's (usual game stuff)
and waited.

about thirty minutes after i closed via internet (cut it off shortly after with my time constraint)
i sent her the do you know why u suck message.
and followed up with 'because ive been waiting forever for you to text me so i can take you out for coffee and you havent yet.
im onm to the coffee shop now ;)

Author:  se7in [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:36 am ]
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I decided to go with texting. I opened with a funny comment and got her laughing. Then I played the pick a number game and then I asked her out for some gokarting. She accepted but said I need to remind her, and then she said she already had plans. I responded with have fun, il see ya when I do. She responded with sorry :( and I wrote back haha dont apologize, go have fun and well get something set up when we both have time. I havent talked to her since, that was around a week ago. What should my next move be?

Author:  vdubber247 [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:15 pm ]
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well first rule is dont ask tell. start will a story that has some sort of personal meaning to you .. then say something like and you wont understand untill you see it for yourself... and that why your going with me to(insert place)thursday cause im busy anyother day....
example.... when i was younger my dad used to take me to the peir at like four in the morning and the sunrise ... it was just... the most amazing thing ive ever seen.... it was so beautiful... and (here it comes) you wont understand untill you see it for yourself... and thats why u are coming with me friday... i got work anyotherday this week... except for wednesday and ive got plans already that day soo... ill see you friday. ;)

Author:  se7in [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 9:59 pm ]
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Damn, I like that. Definately tryin it out soon!

Author:  Brawndo [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 5:45 am ]
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One thing I've learned the hard way is get her on the phone as quick as possible. Texting is great, BUT phone convos are much more personal.

Author:  vdubber247 [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 6:01 am ]
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One thing I've learned the hard way is get her on the phone as quick as possible. Texting is great, BUT phone convos are much more personal.
agreed. AND GLAD I COULD BE OF SERVICE

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