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Author:  BombshellBrunette [ Thu May 27, 2010 1:04 am ]
Post subject:  Epic Fails- can't date close
When I was using okcupid, it was easy to number close the guys and they'd ask me out or we'd make plans to hangout. then when i switched to plentyoffish for hotter targets, the game got harder. I'd start off by messaging them:



hey whats up i came across you profile and you seem like a pretty chill guy if your interested in talkin message me back and we can go from there. Lookin forward to hearing from you

and build fluff along the way. then i'd ask them if they wanted to chill sometime and got their cell. but heres the problem

when i ask the guys to HANGOUT OR CHILL i keep getting repeated responses of maybe I feel theres something wrong in my game if i keep getting the same results and no date closes. suggestions on how to successfully date close online after u number close?
Author:  Zennixx [ Thu May 27, 2010 3:04 am ]
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They likely don't believe that your profile is real. I know if I had a "sexy brunette" message me, telling me to hang out then I'd say, "maybe".
Author:  minsok [ Thu May 27, 2010 7:05 am ]
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And here is where the attraction universe finds balance. It looks like you're being too forward. Personally, I like it when a girl shows interest. I find it off putting if she's making all the moves and setting the pace, it makes me start to feel like she's the man. I might even think she's desperate and she'll lose value. You're a girl. If you want a masculine guy, you have to let him make the moves and establish the pace, otherwise you're going to end up with wishy washy guys that don't mind if you're the dominant partner. It must be hard being a girl, because gender roles dictate that you have to be passive here. Stop pushing so hard.

Oh, and be a dear and critique my profile will you? here-vp356647.html#356647 I'm especially interested in female criticism.
Author:  Icewalker [ Thu May 27, 2010 10:22 am ]
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Get him on the bloody telephone!

Voice > Messages!
Author:  Dr. Beat [ Thu May 27, 2010 12:44 pm ]
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You also may not be as attractive as your name implies, so they could just be denying you because of that.

Like minsok said, don't seem needy. When a girl seems needy she loses her value fast. If I were to get a message from a girl, I want it to be funny and really impulsive.

For example, I would love a message that's random along the lines of "So if on your absolute perfect day, a band of pirates attacked... WHAT WOULD YOU DO!?" It's fun, it's slightly imaginative and it allows me to show a little bit of my personality in my response. That's why these messages are important... most profiles don't portray much personality, so the message should be asked in a way that forces it.
Author:  TheJ [ Thu May 27, 2010 1:20 pm ]
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I'm not sure you'll be able to find a lot of good advices from guys here. I agree somewhat with what minsok said, guys like to chase, if you are chasing too much it might push them away.

Something I would try out if I was you (I'm trying to reflect on what girls said/did to me to make me want to chase them). Marketting wise, nothing sells more then scarcity. Make yourself apear scarse. Pharases like: " I'm really busy with X lately but you seem like a cool that that I would enjoy getting to know more. I could find some spare time on wednesday night for a coffee. How about it". Much more selling then "how about doing something sometimes?".

Try a couple of those, if it doesn't work out, I would try something like: " When are you going to man-up and ask me out ;) ". Makes his unconciously want to defand his manhood and might ask you out most of the time.

Anyhow, you might want to fiddle around with those and vary accourding to your style.

Cheers!
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