Hey gents,
Im new to the forums so I figured I would introduce myself and start out with a question. Im a 24 year old guy looking to hit up more girls in the local area. After my new job and leaving college Ive simply had a much harder time meeting girls. I did have a gf over the summer but ended the relationship cause things werent working out. Ive since been in a dry spell and figured I would give the forums a shot. Im ultimately looking to improve my game...i havent had much in the past but got by.
Onto my question...
So I joined eharmony and found this girl I was interested in. She seemed pretty cool and we have a lot in common which is a huge plus. After sending two longer messages back and forth throughout the week and cracking a few jokes, I decided to ask her to chill at the end of my last message. Here is the end of my message and her response below it. There was a lot of fluff before both of these messages but I just included the parts about hangin out. I was honestly somewhat surprised at her response since we seemed to be hitting it off and joking around in our previous messages. It looks like she is really shy about chillin or just not all that interested. Im looking to get a full critique (go easy on me I know I got a lot to learn) on the situation and how to proceed. Ive read the sticky in this section and it looks like one thing I could have done was cut out more bs and just been more straight up. Let me know what you think.
ME:
I was planning to meet up with my cousin this weekend but other than that dont have any big plans. I think Im still feeling the effects of last weekend lol. Ive really enjoyed getting to know you so far and it seems like we have a lot in common. I was wondering if you would like to meet up at some point, maybe even this weekend if your available. Perhaps I could I interest you in a restaurant in (took out the city)? Let me know what you think. Here is my number btw: 1234567, feel free to call whenever. Let me know about plans for this weekend and hope to ttys!
HB:
So to be completely honest, I am having a hard time finding the energy to turn off the TV right now. I am exhausted and got home about 2 hours ago.
BUT I was planning on calling you (so the thought was there, just didn't want to disappoint with my lack of energy plus I have pounding headache from work today, which is no fun). However, I would love to meet up! I have enjoyed talking to you as well and when I looked to see how long we had been talking for, I was shocked to see it was really only since this week started. It seems much longer than that! My only issue is that I have happy hour plans tomorrow and girls night out on Saturday. The next two weekends I have company...so that would mean that we would have to wait a few weeks unless you are up for grabbing lunch or coffee during the day somewhere? (If the weather is nice, we could even catch some sun and sit outside). Thoughts? If you aren't too busy tomorrow after work, I can call you after happy hour and we can talk. Would that be cool? Then we can plan from there.Hope to talk to you tomorrow! Happy Friday