When I first joined the game, Approach Anxiety was, and still is, my Achilles’ heel. I had read somewhere that online game could be used to improve self confidence when it came to game and so I tried it out.
A few months ago, some girl happened to comment on my status updates on Facebook. I had said that some cartoons are really great and she, obviously, started saying that cartoons are childish……….blah blah. I decided to tease her by saying that if she doesn’t like cartoons she must have been one of those girls who beat up boys when she was young
(It did turn out to be true by the way…. And the girl was a fat Ug that could beat up a fully grown man right now if she wished to do so, but let me not get ahead of myself….) we flirted some more and eventually I started sending her messages.The first hurdle that came with facebook game was DHVing . It was not as easy as it would be if she were personally present. I couldn’t spontaneously notice that she had a c shaped smile, or do my favorite palm read….but I still had to come up with some thing. What I did was tell her that I wanted us to play a game. The question game. I now had a way of asking her questions without seeming interested in her, and from her replies I got topics to carry the conversation forward. With my answers, I could DHV. Tell her stories, do the cube, demonstrate vulnerability, establish commonalities e.t.c e.t.c .
The girl eventually called me and we arranged a meet but she turned out to be a seriously aesthetically – challenged (it’s rude to call people ugly.
)She did try to give me a blow job which I declined and I ignored her later on, but it was a wonderful experience to actually vibe a chick and have her on her knees begging for my dick on the first meet…I have done the same thing twice and it has worked well enough on both occasions. My take on how you can use facebook to increase to your source of babes…
1. Once you have established some form of contact with the chick (excluding inbox, in this case I’m dealing with walls and status updates) …try and flirt with her in some way, I have found teases to be quite good in this situation. Don’t go overboard though; just keep it to a minimum.
2. If the target responds warmly, vibe for a while and then stop conversation. Wait for sometime, preferably a day and then follow up with a few messages. If that goes well, you should now send a friend request to the chick if you are not already friends. (She may send you one herself, which is a BIG IOI). You can now initiate the question game. You probably all know this but, don’t be the guy who’s always flirting with her on her wall. Mind you, she probably has her own targets that she is pursuing and she might not want them knowing of her “exploits”. Inbox provides discretion which is really important to women and gives you a chance to win her over. Later in the interaction , you should try and post some stuff on her wall, to demonstrate that she isn’t just some chick you vibe in secret… but you have to calibrate well.
3. I have this role play that worked really well with both of them…… Most probably, you will find commonalities from her answers. After you find a few, you can pretend to be shocked by their number and tell her that they must be a sign and that you are marrying her. She will probably refuse, in which case you start negotiating. You could say, you will build her a swimming pool, 6 workers e.t.c and in the end she will agree. I usually then tell her I want 12 children which leads her to refusing again. More negotiations until you both come up with a compromise. This routine also helps one in introducing sex into the equation e.g. you could tell her that off late she sucks in bed, and if she doesn’t improve, you will cheat on her with one of the workers….or if she does something that you don’t like, you could tell her you are going on a sex strike…….. You can role play for quite sometime but don’t exhaust it.
4. A word of advice, if the girl is someone who you have never met before, you should have at least tried to establish some basic interaction with the chick before this…don’t be just “another guy who I don’t even know, that is hitting on me…” In my case, the two chicks and I had quite a good number of mutual friends and I guess that helped. I actually met one of them after posting a poll on one of my friends, and as she replied, we talked and then I started gaming her. It gave me a plausible reason to talk to her. Try to avoid a situation whereby the girl is asking herself “why and who is this guy talking to me?”
5. You HAVE to get her number as soon as you can. I’m no expert so timing is at your discretion….don’t rush it though.
6. Cocky funny is a very useful tool in facebook game…don’t answer her questions immediately. Use the fact that you have time to think before replying to your advantage. Use witty answers. But again... don’t overdo it and don’t wait to long before you answer.
7. Always try to end the interaction first. It creates the vibe that you are the prize. Initially it will almost always be up to you to begin a conversation, but after she starts giving you IOIs, let her start some of the conversations. Don’t ignore your other female friends just because things are going well. Talk to them. Especially via their walls, so that she can see you are pre-selected.
8. As a general rule, try to keep you status updates to a minimum, ESPECIALLY if you rarely get comments. The target can not see you live and in action, so even if your game is super tight in person, she will only see the string of updates with 1or 0 comments and assume you are a social reject. I have this thing whereby I only send friend request to extremely beautiful girls after a spurt of activity in my account, like when I update my status and get something like 20+ comments …. It seems to help.
I am no guru but I hope this helps some people…peace.