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Author:  DotsnHots [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  I Feel Horrible - Maybe I Can't Do This?
Maybe I'm just not cute.. but I don't know.

I've been reading here a bit, tried a few different lines from some successful threads and I've been getting slammed hard left and right. Here are the last three responses I've gotten:

"LOL like ud have a chance wit me!"

"yea ur ugly"

"Id slap you if you ever talked to me again"

"youre honestly not very cute"

Now.. I've never been anyone who cares what people think, but when every one you try to hit on or talk to puts you down, it's the worst feeling in the world.

When ever they have their mind set on "Ew he's ugly" I can't do anything at that point.. I've tried a witty response such as:

"Is that what you say to all the guys you're attracted to" or I try to brush it off and just laugh at them "LOL if you say so."

They just even feel more offended then and the responses I get are even worse. I'm targeting 18-25 year range girls here since I'm 21. Maybe I just am too ugly to even try to pursuit this kind of thing? I don't know.. any advice would be appreciated.. and as much as I'm going to regret this, here's a few pictures: (And no, I'm not hitting on girls over Myspace. I wouldn't use that profile for that)

My myspace is Coreygeer since I can't post links yet.
Author:  Yeahg [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 8:17 pm ]
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Hi man,

If i'm honest with you, you are kind of cute!

Seriously, you don't look ugly, keep doing those sargings until it feels more natural... learn your routines etcetera.. make sure to wear something nice but that you feel comfortable with (although you could try someday to wear something totally outside your style to see what happens) and more important don't pay attention to unrespectful comments! I wouldn't like to be with a girl that says those things, even if it´s just for sex... would you?

I don't know if you are sarging alone but you could use the help of fellow PUA´s, to get advises and keep motivated.

PS: I'm like the biggest AFC in the world, so just take the advises that you think make sense :P
Author:  forxis [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:55 pm ]
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look not everytime your gonna get success if anyone says your ugly you counter attack " if you think you're perfect , try walking on water" or " usually I remember every face I see but in your case I'll make an exception" those will give you lots of confidence :D :D and try to send a lot of msg's to a lot of women try using different opening lines and try to to reach your goal whatever it is flirting online / number close etc etc. good luck man pull yourself together :)
Author:  forxis [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:57 pm ]
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btw have you changed your style to well groomed? you should try maybe changing your style , new clothes go to hairstylist , wear some accessories like a ring or a necklace and so on to make yourself more interesting :) also make some nice photo do a photosession with a friend and choose the best you both think :)
Author:  EndersGame [ Wed Jan 27, 2010 10:28 pm ]
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Glanced over your myspace, DUDE you don't have a problem with your physical appearance. What your problem probably is confidence and respect for yourself. I'm personally pretty far from attractive I'd give myself a 6 if i was a HB but that doesn't phase me at all. Exude confidence, sexuality, strength, and determination with some nice clothes, some bling (doesn't have to be precious metal) I normally wear a bone fishhook necklace, a rasta bracelet made from black, red, yellow, and green wooden beads and a brilliant smile. Thats all you need to get started.

Clean yourself up before you go out.
IMMACULATELY POLISHED as TI would say.
Author:  Skelfir [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 12:47 pm ]
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Dude there is nothing wrong with your looks, actually you are bit over average!
However you need you work on your apperance, get some new stylish clothes, grow some more hair and do something fun, stylish or peacocky like with it.

Also if you are getting coments like this it's not yours looks but your apperance and body language, whatch how you walk, stand, sit, lean and talk. If you show that you are unconfident then you look ugly.
In men's cases looks arent as importand as in the woman cases anyways, just work on your confident, body language and get some new clothes and you'll be golden.

Me myself dont think i'm over a 6-7 but i haven't gotten a comment like this since 7th grade and what helped me was starting to work out, it gives you great body posture, great body and changes all your body language.

Just stop whining and do something about it mate ;)
gl

Edit: Look at the Featured Posters on the banner: Gamble, Adam Lyons, Sinn, Carlos Xuma .. every single one of them could be called ugly, and probably were. But they got things worked out and have probably banged more chicks then we will ever do. It isn't about the looks.
Author:  Chillburg [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 2:14 pm ]
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Quote:
Glanced over your myspace, DUDE you don't have a problem with your physical appearance. What your problem probably is confidence and respect for yourself.
This, This, and THIS. I think you should just cut your hair a little shorter though, now it looks like "hi i dont give a shit about my hair" get it to like 6mm or something! Buzz cut ftw!

Keeping it short always helps to look better groomed imo.

You should head over to the inner game section of the forum that can help you become more confident.

And really you're not ugly!
Author:  Graybeard [ Sat Feb 20, 2010 2:05 am ]
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it is disheartening to hear that someone thinks you are unattractive. there are things to keep in mind though. most people can improve their looks even if they get compliments already. every type of physique can be improved. every face has better hair styles to go along with it. maybe your natural hair color isn't best for you. maybe you need a better sense of style to show off yoru looks. there are ways to be more efficient or productive. i saw a thing on tv a number of years ago where women did a study wehre they looked at pics of guys and rated their attractiveness. basically the more feminine and thin a face is and the more symetrical a face is the more attracted they are. so unless you have a scar you want to hide, you are probably best to be clean shaven in your main pic at least. i tink women may just tell a guy he is ugly if they find you boring and of average looks. this way they can get rid of you for good. i think that to a degree the more interesting yoru first message is the less likely they will just go "Ugly bye". personally, i don't go after the ultra hot usually anyhow. so many are fake that i'd rather go after someone that is more than likely real. just keep your chin up though. this is as much about numbers as it is skill. you can't message 2 people and assume one of them is going to reply or reply poitively. thereare simply slumps that occur.
Author:  Graybeard [ Sat Feb 20, 2010 2:06 am ]
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it is disheartening to hear that someone thinks you are unattractive. there are things to keep in mind though. most people can improve their looks even if they get compliments already. every type of physique can be improved. every face has better hair styles to go along with it. maybe your natural hair color isn't best for you. maybe you need a better sense of style to show off yoru looks. there are ways to be more efficient or productive. i saw a thing on tv a number of years ago where women did a study wehre they looked at pics of guys and rated their attractiveness. basically the more feminine and thin a face is and the more symetrical a face is the more attracted they are. so unless you have a scar you want to hide, you are probably best to be clean shaven in your main pic at least. i tink women may just tell a guy he is ugly if they find you boring and of average looks. this way they can get rid of you for good. i think that to a degree the more interesting yoru first message is the less likely they will just go "Ugly bye". personally, i don't go after the ultra hot usually anyhow. so many are fake that i'd rather go after someone that is more than likely real. just keep your chin up though. this is as much about numbers as it is skill. you can't message 2 people and assume one of them is going to reply or reply poitively. thereare simply slumps that occur.
Author:  The Persian [ Sat Feb 20, 2010 2:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I Feel Horrible - Maybe I Can't Do This?
Quote:
Maybe I'm just not cute.. but I don't know.

I've been reading here a bit, tried a few different lines from some successful threads and I've been getting slammed hard left and right. Here are the last three responses I've gotten:

"LOL like ud have a chance wit me!"

"yea ur ugly"

"Id slap you if you ever talked to me again"

"youre honestly not very cute"

Now.. I've never been anyone who cares what people think, but when every one you try to hit on or talk to puts you down, it's the worst feeling in the world.

When ever they have their mind set on "Ew he's ugly" I can't do anything at that point.. I've tried a witty response such as:

"Is that what you say to all the guys you're attracted to" or I try to brush it off and just laugh at them "LOL if you say so."

They just even feel more offended then and the responses I get are even worse. I'm targeting 18-25 year range girls here since I'm 21. Maybe I just am too ugly to even try to pursuit this kind of thing? I don't know.. any advice would be appreciated.. and as much as I'm going to regret this, here's a few pictures: (And no, I'm not hitting on girls over Myspace. I wouldn't use that profile for that)

My myspace is Coreygeer since I can't post links yet.
take a look at this pic!
http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2007/0 ... 68x702.jpg
That guy is MARRIED to Christina Aguilera!!!!!! Have a look at David X and Ross Jeffries!!!!
True, looks can help alot specially to get the girls attention, however I saw your photos and you are alright. I dont think your ugly at all, however you could try diff looks and see what suits ya best, or even grow your hair longer (if allowed cuz one of the photos seemed like ur in army :p). So go with diff looks once in a while and see what gives you the most compliments! :) OR try to find a celeb look alike and try and see how he dresses and what kinda hair style he's got and shit.
so if u r not a stud, then your game has to be stronger, and trust me, what you reflect to others is what you feel inside! Do not feel ugly as u r not.

Here is my few hints on online sarging. Check it out
my-few-hints-for-online-dating-websites ... highlight=

read that and then explain to me what routines you used and how you approach and we all can help you :)
Author:  The [ Sat Feb 20, 2010 9:23 am ]
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I was to lazy to read everyone elses reply but my tip is dont take another pic of

yourself get someone else to take a pic maby of you and your friends

doing something fun and also maby get a nice haircut you still got the army thng going
Author:  skypirate35 [ Sat Feb 20, 2010 1:14 pm ]
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there's a word for what everyone else is talking about, it's "congruence", or what you have: incongruence and girls have a 6th sense for that. Online, incongruence between what you say and how you seem in picture is a killer. You know a picture is worth a thousand words, it's the nature of your appearance, apparel & accessories that girls pick up on. things that indicate more confidence than the average guy. or How you appear in public is a dead giveaway of your actual level of confidence. Case in point the picture of you with your car.
That is not a picture of a guy that has the confidence to stand out.
Author:  Smartbomb [ Sun Feb 21, 2010 3:11 am ]
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I agree w/ the congruence comment. You have to look cocky if you talk cocky. I posted a completely over the top cocky ad earlier in the week and got a ton of responses. More than one woman wrote back that they were underwhelmed when I sent my photo since I guess they had this image in their heads that I was going to be some kind of rock star or something.

It's hard to sarge using a completely over the top neg. I have found it's easier to post one as bait and then only the thick skinned girls respond. A lot of girls online truly ARE emotional trainwrecks and socially inept. That's why they're online instead of out with their friends at the club. Send a zinger at them (particularly if it's denigrating) and their already weak egos will collapse like burnt timbers in a house fire.
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