I number closed a girl on an online dating site, here is the conversation as follows, here are the first few emails:
Me:
Hey nice essay that must have been the longest profile I have ever seen think you broke a record somewhere Hehe.
I wish you were around at my uni to help me with my dissertation :p
Her:
haha hey! yeah i know it's so long but everytime i attempt to edit it i can never decide what to cut out & i normally end up adding more to it, so i tend to not look at my own profile lol! but, i can say it is exactly like me, i talk too much in person, lol so i guess i talk too much in word form as well..hence this overdrawn message! haha
Me:
Well at least I will never get bored around you. Providing you talk about interesting topics Hehe.
Her:
haha no i've never been called boring. I guess it depends on what you find interesting. i'm pretty random, i can go from physics to how awesome i think lego's can be. i really never run out of things to say lol.. but, i am painting the wrong picture. i do not talk non-stop lol because, even i would find that annoying
Then chatting on the online chat feature:
[10:25:53 pm]Me: - playful joke about her name -
[10:31:06 pm]Her:hahah thanks!
[10:34:15 pm]Me:I've not noticed you around town before you must stay in during the evenings now it is getting colder :p
[10:34:41 pm]Her:haha i dont live in there anymore, lol i live in a much smaller town
[10:35:39 pm]Me:strange it says you live there on your profile lol it must not be far from there then
[10:36:25 pm]Her:nope not too far, i actually have to go to there tomz
[10:38:04 pm]Me:cool let me guess xmas shopping
[10:38:15 pm]Her:lol a little of this a little of that
[10:39:10 pm]Me:in other words yes
[10:39:20 pm]Me:you are one crazy girl :p
[10:39:32 pm]Her:hahah just a bit
[10:39:57 pm]Me:If I wasnt busy I would let you buy me a drink Hehe
[10:40:12 pm]Her:hahah
[10:41:30 pm]Me:It could be interesting next week though
[10:42:02 pm]Her:yeah it would not be interesting tomz lol as i will be with my mum
[10:42:34 pm]Me:yes it would dont lie lol
[10:42:45 pm]Her:haha i dont lie
[10:42:59 pm]Me:i know :p
[10:44:57 pm]Me:Are you around Tues or Thurs evening next week?
[10:45:24 pm]Her:in town? (about 25 minutes from where she lives)
[10:45:49 pm]Me:yah :p
[10:47:12 pm]Her:lol erm dunno..possibly
[10:49:19 pm]Me:now you are acting shy lol
[10:49:54 pm]Her:lol im not shy!!!
[10:50:32 pm]Me:im not convinced you seem like you could be a bit :p
[10:51:15 pm]Her:lol im not shy at all..except for when ive got like a little girly crush on someone then i'm a bit shy but, other than that im not shy at all
[10:53:51 pm]Me:Meet me next Thursday then if you are not shy :p Unless you have other plans like saving the world or something lol
[10:55:02 pm]Her:lol i could be saving the world..or creating life on the moon, a hero's job is never done! but i will try & pencil you in
[10:56:19 pm]Me:Come on you need to sound more enthusiastic than that for me to take you out Hehe
[10:56:55 pm]Her:haha i thought i was the one buying the drinks..technically that would mean i am taking YOU out !
[10:58:50 pm]Me:Behave lol
[10:59:00 pm]Her:lol i'll try
[10:59:47 pm]Me:I will tell you what I will give you a call on Monday and we can arrange something then
[11:00:09 pm]Her:haha alrite
[11:00:56 pm]Me:Its always better to hear what someone sounds like :p
[11:01:32 pm]Her:well i sound like an american..so i mean thats gotta score me some points in the "i'm different" department
[11:02:08 pm]Me:Hmmm depends there are a lot of Americans on TV but I don't get much time to watch that much TV nowadays :p
[11:02:33 pm]Her:hahah
[11:03:29 pm]Me:You promise not to talk my head off right lol
[11:03:46 pm]Her:yes i promise lol
[11:05:52 pm]Me:Alrightee then Hehe
[11:06:23 pm]Her:lol yh well i guess just give me a ring on monday then & we'll sort somethin out
[11:06:24 pm]Me:Do you remember your number :p
[11:06:36 pm]Her:07-----------
[11:08:11 pm]Me:I would give you mine but you might call me 10 times a day lol
[11:08:22 pm]Her:hahah cheek!
[11:08:37 pm]Her:what is ur name by the way
[11:09:00 pm]Me:You forgot my name you owe me two drinks now lol
[11:09:36 pm]Me:It is (my name)
[11:09:38 pm]Her:lol u didnt ever tell me what it was ?
[11:09:48 pm]Me:In my profile lol
[11:10:02 pm]Me:Is - profile name - just a nickname?
[11:10:03 pm]Her:lol & what is my name ?
[11:10:19 pm]Me:Her lol
[11:10:34 pm]Her:lol its is myprofile, now u owe me 2 drinks
[11:10:50 pm]Me:we owe each other lol so whats yours? :p
[11:10:58 pm]Me:profile was so long I couldnt see it Hehe
[11:11:10 pm]Her: -her name-
[11:11:20 pm]Her:lol & its up at the top!
[11:12:03 pm]Me: - gave her a nickname -
[11:12:16 pm]Her:NOOOO not - nickname -
[11:12:48 pm]Me: - another nickname -
[11:12:58 pm]Her:hahah fine fine i will accept!
[11:13:44 pm]Me:Anyway as much as this has been a pleasure I must go now :p
[11:14:12 pm]Her:yes ur interupting my laundry !!
[11:14:14 pm]Me:Have fun doing your shopping lol
[11:14:19 pm]Her:lol i will
[11:14:21 pm]Me:and laundry
[11:14:27 pm]Her:haha thans
[11:14:27 pm]Me:and talking so much lol
[11:14:35 pm]Her:haha shut up!
[11:14:38 pm]Her:cya xx
[11:14:42 pm]Me:behave
[11:14:46 pm]Me:laterz
What do you reckon to this number close, I have had previous conversations similar to this where girls were not willing to banter as much and it did not work.
Conversations like this only work for about 1 in 2/3 girls with me. Is it longer than necessary.
We have not met up yet, we are always c&f to each other and she did cancel on me but then she mentioned she was in town and I said I was busy so we are even Hahar :p
Logistics could have a part to play as she does live about 25 minutes away in a different town, and we both work until early evening and are busy on weekends.
Nevertheless perhaps this number close was a bit too long, did I build enough comfort, attraction and whatever else is needed, what do some experienced guys who are having success think?