Dear PUAunderstudy,
This is a common area that a lot of highschool guys do fall into. There are two different methods here and it highly depends on if you already have her added as a Friend on FB already or not. Either way though you require a strong and unique opener so you are not lost in the crowd here. Let's get started
The first and most important bit of advice I'm going to give you here is
Do NOT try the advice of Fly9 basic dreary openers do NOT help when you are trying to make an opener with a girl that you have had a minimal relationship with. If you are talking to a close friend then sure go ahead whip out the small talk, but you are trying to make yourself stick in this girls mind instead of the other guys that she runs into
Now lets say she doesn't have you as a friend on FB yet, what you are going to do is send her a friend request with a cute little message with a unique flare to it, a tiny bit of a neg is important
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To think we were neighbours for all that time and you didn't have the courage to add me on FB I guess I will do you a favor 
Then let her accept the friend request, now that you have initiated, wait and sit back and see what happens, if she brings in an opening conversation ~hopefully a cute reply to your message~ then you are good to go, step into a bit of a flirting game and neg a little. If she doesn't then you wait a day or two before making your next post as you do not want to seem desperate or clingy. ~To see what to post move on to the next senario~Senario two, if she already has you on FB head straight to her wall and do one of the following depending on how close you were with the girl and how much rapport there is
Not close at all
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Hey, I noticed in your profile you are interested in ~insert an interest you can ask questions about here~, I always thought it was a little quirky, ~insert question about it here~
That senario is the lame cop out really if you feel you need to use it you may find yourself in the friend zone fast so I do recommend you try and bump up to the next one even if you are unsure, yet that one at the very least gets you talking on a good noteSomewhat close to the girl
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So, I was just thinking of wonderful people that I don't know nearly enough about and imagine that you popped into my head! So whats new and happening in the world of ~insert their name here~?
If they give you a generic nothing much reply it can be a pretty heavy wall and many people will drop out there but your best bet is to hit them back with a neg like Quote:
Ah, how ever dull your world seems these days, perhaps I'd find something more fascinating asking about your interests?
and last but certainly not least my favorite method it is your classic hit or miss, if you know the girl well there isn't much risk but this one has the best gain so if you have the guts, or don't care if she doesnt want to be friends if this is a miss, or know her well pull out the big guns and writeQuote:
Well it's been a while since we were so close and neighbourly with those lockers of ours, and Mr. Rogers taught me well about being nice to my neighbours so I was thinking I'd let you join me for a cup of coffee sometime so we can get to know each other?
The important thing to note here is your being a bit of a tease and a bit cocky, but in reversing the adjectives you are suggesting to her subconcious that she wants to take you out instead of you asking, also coffee can be seen as non-serious so it gets you in there, lets you get face to face so you can start stepping up the game.I hope this helps!
Signed,
Dr Highlander