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| Author: | aska [ Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to respond to: "...I'm not very social though" |
I messaged a girl on myspace who is very artsy and has in her interests that she likes solitude. All her pics are artsy pics of herself or her work--- no social pics. With this in mind, how should I respond to her response? Below is the conversation: ------------------------------------------------------ Date: Jul 1, 2009 8:11 PM Subject: RE: hey I reside in [this-town]... yes... I'm not very social though. ----------------- Original Message ----------------- From: ME To: HER Date: Jun 27, 2009 4:45 PM Subject: hey hi, I saw you have many similar interests as myself. Are you even from [this-town]? Anyway, I'm moving back from [other-town] and wanted to possibly meet some people who do more than smoke meth. |
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| Author: | Graybeard [ Sat Jul 04, 2009 1:11 am ] |
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Personally, I'd just treat this lightheartedly. If the girl is shy, you don't want to make her more shy. I'd just make a joke of things. her- i'm not very social though. me. oh, did you chase everyone away? are you secretly a meanie? i'll bet you kick puppies and steal candy from babies in your spare time. lol and more often then not the girl will say some crap about how there nobody around there that is the type of person she can be friends with or be close to. |
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| Author: | Slowburner [ Mon Jul 06, 2009 8:42 am ] |
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Hi Aska, be prepared for a long, long game with her. She is likely to have very high standards, be quite selfish, a romantic idealist, possibly latent obsessive. She is very likely to have been seriously hurt in past. She will need lots of comfort. If she's good looking and they almost always are...multiply what I said by 10. I was friends with a guy many years ago and he became involved with an arty intellectual type, it was so long and drawn out, we are talking the best part of 2 years!. My friend did eventually "crack" her and they had a brilliant relationship for a month but once a big argument started it was like word war 3. In short she could be trouble, handle yourself and her with care. |
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| Author: | Legion [ Tue Jul 07, 2009 6:37 pm ] |
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Quote: Hi Aska,
Lol, You can tell ALL THAT about her from like a fucking sentence or two?be prepared for a long, long game with her. She is likely to have very high standards, be quite selfish, a romantic idealist, possibly latent obsessive. She is very likely to have been seriously hurt in past. She will need lots of comfort. If she's good looking and they almost always are...multiply what I said by 10. I was friends with a guy many years ago and he became involved with an arty intellectual type, it was so long and drawn out, we are talking the best part of 2 years!. My friend did eventually "crack" her and they had a brilliant relationship for a month but once a big argument started it was like word war 3. In short she could be trouble, handle yourself and her with care. Maybe you can... if so, damn, good job on the intuitive social understanding! |
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