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Author:  jeybeez [ Sat Jun 20, 2009 1:21 am ]
Post subject:  Online game went so well, where did I go wrong?
I began my first online sarging yesterday and had a couple of replies and my first went down the drain. The opener had a negative reply, but I bounced back and it ended in shambles. I honestly think infield is easier than online because I've never had any turn downs infield. Anyways Here's our convo>>>

Me: Whos that cute girl in your profile pic? Tell her I think we should hook up

HB8: im not sure about this...i cant see any of your pics

Me: Well consider yourself the luckiest girl alive because I have decided to grant you access to them!! And anyways who needs a picture when I have Miss California to talk to?!

HB8: im not sure about this whole miss cali thing, im not that girly type! lol

Me: Me neither!!
Seems like we've got that in common and for that I'm adopting you as my new little sister!
:-]

HB8: fine for me! lol

Me: Wait Wait not so FAST... For me to do that you'd have to prove to me that you aren't crazy!!

HB8: soo..we are gonna have a huge problem, because i am a little crazy! lol

Me: That's ok, problems come with the brother sister thing so I'm sure I can handle it. So I see you love to surf too, yet another great thing we have in common, I bet together we'd make great surf partners!

HB8: yeh i love surfing, i turned pro this year and i get a scolarhip in Queenslanf University because of it! Now i study marine biology for free in AUS! it is the most amazing thing ever! lol

Me: Congratulations pro surfer you've made me proud. We'll since were both "not that girly", and love to surf we should both surf sometime! Sound good?

HB8: i'll think about it, but where do u live?

Me: Hey Hey, I'll do the thinking around here, remember I'm the big bro! This summer I'm staying at my cousins house in Malibu and I'm at the beach every weekend. Gimmie your number, and we'll schedule a beach day because I don't think you're as good as you say, you'll need to show me! :-)

HB8: you are kind of weird and i dont give my number to strangers so...not really feeling it..

I can kind of see where I fucked up, when I said "So I see you love to surf too, yet another great thing we have in common, I bet together we'd make great surf partners!". From here on I turned the attraction phase to friend phase. But I need another opinion on where I went wrong. What would you guys have done?
Author:  jurupa [ Sat Jun 20, 2009 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game went so well, where did I go wrong?
Quote:
I began my first online sarging yesterday and had a couple of replies and my first went down the drain. The opener had a negative reply, but I bounced back and it ended in shambles. I honestly think infield is easier than online because I've never had any turn downs infield. Anyways Here's our convo>>>
I find that hard to believe, but on to your online game.
Quote:
Me: Whos that cute girl in your profile pic? Tell her I think we should hook up

HB8: im not sure about this...i cant see any of your pics

Me: Well consider yourself the luckiest girl alive because I have decided to grant you access to them!! And anyways who needs a picture when I have Miss California to talk to?!

HB8: im not sure about this whole miss cali thing, im not that girly type! lol

Me: Me neither!!
Seems like we've got that in common and for that I'm adopting you as my new little sister!
:-]

HB8: fine for me! lol

Me: Wait Wait not so FAST... For me to do that you'd have to prove to me that you aren't crazy!!

HB8: soo..we are gonna have a huge problem, because i am a little crazy! lol

Me: That's ok, problems come with the brother sister thing so I'm sure I can handle it. So I see you love to surf too, yet another great thing we have in common, I bet together we'd make great surf partners!

HB8: yeh i love surfing, i turned pro this year and i get a scolarhip in Queenslanf University because of it! Now i study marine biology for free in AUS! it is the most amazing thing ever! lol

Me: Congratulations pro surfer you've made me proud. We'll since were both "not that girly", and love to surf we should both surf sometime! Sound good?

HB8: i'll think about it, but where do u live?

Me: Hey Hey, I'll do the thinking around here, remember I'm the big bro! This summer I'm staying at my cousins house in Malibu and I'm at the beach every weekend. Gimmie your number, and we'll schedule a beach day because I don't think you're as good as you say, you'll need to show me! :-)

HB8: you are kind of weird and i dont give my number to strangers so...not really feeling it..

I can kind of see where I fucked up, when I said "So I see you love to surf too, yet another great thing we have in common, I bet together we'd make great surf partners!". From here on I turned the attraction phase to friend phase. But I need another opinion on where I went wrong. What would you guys have done?
There is really no exact point to where you messed up as you messed up overall. Your main problem was that you put her in a friend mindset with the bro/sis thing. And so you only build comfort and nothing else. And you ask for the number way to soon with this girl.
Author:  jeybeez [ Sun Jun 21, 2009 3:02 am ]
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I've had 0% turn down rate using this method because I doesn't require conversation. Conversations are just excuses to stall for the number. Instead of ASKING for the number, TELL her to put it in cause after the girl has given IOIs shes pretty much said yes so get to the point.

Next time you are In-Field follow these steps. (I wrote this assuming like me, you've had no problems getting IOIs with openers; but If you've IODed, then get help with your approach and opening otherwise this wont work)

Opener: "Excuse me, Hi, I just thought you were really cute and wanted to come and say Hi" (Do it with a smile) Then ask her name.
If she gives you IOIs no need to transition.
Close: Give false time constraint, hand her your phone, and tell her to put her number in

Conversations should be left after you've acquired contact details or on a date.

Try this and I guarantee you'll see a difference.

If I did what I do In-Field Online, I would be as successful but you can't HAND HER YOUR PHONE on the internet.

I HAVE HAD in-field rejections using other methods at times because it gets boring using the same thing over and over and kills the name of a Pick Up ARTIST, but I have never left without the number lets put it that way. I always rebuttal by making a deal to play a game for her number that I will win and surprisingly its never failed. Either I'm too lucky or really persistent.

All in all I'm a rookie at computer game which is why I am here in the first place looking to learn so instead of only CRITICIZING my game this time, answer my question... What would YOU HAVE DONE?
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Jun 21, 2009 7:40 am ]
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Quote:
All in all I'm a rookie at computer game which is why I am here in the first place looking to learn so instead of only CRITICIZING my game this time, answer my question... What would YOU HAVE DONE?
Did see the second question as I only skimmed your post when I answered it. I never ever use a bro/sis routine of any kind as it only provides comfort. I instead treat the conversation as if I am actually there talking to her in person. I know there are obvious differences between online game and real world game. But there are similarities between them as well.
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