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| Author: | guntus1 [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 3:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | NEED HELP SOLVING COMMON PROBLEM |
Lately I have been responding to a bunch of ads on craigslist, although 95% are either fake advertisements or fat/ugly chicks, I occasionally get a response from "ok" ones. The problem is, it always ends quickly before I get anywhere. We have normal conversations that last about 4 days with one or two emails going back and forth a day and then all of the sudden I will send an email responding to her last email and they never respond. I don't think it's because I am saying anything inappropriate or bad, but I just don't get it. Here is an example: ME:opener with pic HER:Tell me more about you. Where do u live in OC!? How old r u? What do u do for a living? ME: I answer her questions and then "Your post was pretty thorough but I would like to ask: what are three qualities about your self that would make me want to get to know you?(and your looks can not be one of them)" HER: laughs at my jokes, gives her 3 qualities, and attaches a pic of her. ME: i assign points for her qualities, and neg her cuz the pic is grainy and ask "So tell me what is your passion in life?" HER: tells me her passion and asks "So how is work today? If you were given the day off today what would you go and do?" also "Sorry for the grainy pic, it was sent from a phone camera. " ME: answer her question, commented on her passion and asked "So hopefully this is not too forward, but would you like to continue this on the phone?" HER: asks me more about school and mentions the grainy pic again..."Btw you win points for being sarcastic:) I will send a clearer one when I get home." (and completely ignores me asking for her number????) ME: answer her about school and "I'm glad I get points, but just remember I came up with the point system first, lol. No worries about the grainy pic, looks are common in OC, personality is what counts and what I am interested in. Are you out of town right now?" Ands that's it no more replies, and this has happened to me at least 4 times now, with different girls. It seems like its working and then they stop answering. Can anyone suggest an email I can send them? I was thinking of using Styles' 100% perfect girl routine, but I am looking for other suggestions. Any help would be greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | Don_k [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 7:15 pm ] |
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I think u need to have some banter before u qualify her. Otherwise u will sound so serious, which makes it less fun for her to reply. A great thing u can do is some sort of roleplay. This one by Kata 124 is awesome. It works most of the time. You might want to check it out. perfect-internet-game-woah-vt39020.html Other thing u can do is future projections in ur mail which will also make ur mail more interesting. Hope this helps man x |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Thu Jun 18, 2009 12:01 am ] |
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Ya another person from the OC. lol Now to your problem guntus1. First off stay off of Craigs List. It sucks for the OC. You ain't going to get a worthwhile girl from there. You are far better getting a girl from MySpace than CL. Secondly you are not really building any attraction with the girl. Thirdly you need to know when to ask for her number. You asked for her number way to quickly there. |
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| Author: | greatd [ Wed Jul 01, 2009 1:53 am ] |
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another problem is your qualifying to her. your steping right into her frame instead of makeing her step into your frame(or letting her control the convo.) as soon as you start qualifying yourself to her you lose value. |
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