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| Author: | Vesh [ Sun May 10, 2009 1:29 am ] |
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Ok i didnt know where to post this either here or newbie section so ima just do it here. Basically how do you transition from chatting online through messages to a number? |
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| Author: | Nazkyn [ Sun May 10, 2009 1:12 pm ] |
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The same works for me as I would in real life - 'How could we continue this conversation?', or something to that effect, 9/10 times you'll get their phone number. 9/10 times, it won't even get to that point though, if you're getting on well then she'd probably ask for your number without you even hinting |
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| Author: | Guinness Man [ Sun May 10, 2009 9:50 pm ] |
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there's a million ways. Get to the point of her being invested in the convo. You can tell when her replies stat to lengthen and shes not just typing one sentences. Ask her things that will draw an answer out of her. This will create investment on her part. After shes invested, you can go for the # close. PM me if you need more help. |
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| Author: | Nazkyn [ Sun May 10, 2009 10:08 pm ] |
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Here's what I mean - Me - What would you say if I offered you a romantic, candlelit chicken nugget happy meal followed by a visit to your local stamp collectors yearly chess competition? Is that hardcore enough for you? Her - Sounds good up to the nugget fest! stamps and chess aren't my thing though Good weekend chess boy? Me - Thank god I wasn't offering it then Fantastic weekend thanks, how about yourself? Her - Booooo! I want nuggets and BBQ sauce now!! Great weekend too thanks. Roll on the next one Me - Yeah yeah, you just want the happy meal toy really. So what did you get upto? Go anywhere nice? Her - Busted!! Gym fest, shopping and wine sesh with my mates. How about you? This is where I set her up for an IOI, cos she was pretty boring to be honest... but HOT Me - I went out clubbing on Friday night, ended up ordering something stupid off of E-Bay by accident and blew all my wages on my pay day IOI Her - clubbing where? oh dear! you must live at home then? Me - Just round the city nearest to me, Carlisle. And na, I live on my own, just gonna have to tap into my overdraft this week Another IOI - Her - Haha don't blame you! Is Carlisle good for a night out? Only been there for work meetings and out for an Italian meal once near a shopping centre! x Notice the kiss at the end of her last reply? It's not much, but if you start giving them to girls online and then stop, they notice, BELIEVE ME. So reciprocate and then stop. Push pull Me - Friday night was a good night, always gets really busy in Carlisle on a night out, haven't got a clue where we went cos I was drunk before I even left the house and it was my first time out in Carlisle The Lanes shopping centre eh? Yeah, there are some good restaurants around there Did you like Carlisle? And did you get to see much else of Cumbria? xx Her - Not sure, there was a debenhams in there! The restaurant was on the left opp another car park for badge holders. Don't know Cumbria well at all, usually stuck in offices for meetings apart from the odd time we've had lunch x Me - Ah yeah, I know what you mean So what do you do for work? Notice the lack of kisses in that last reply Her - Marketing / Performance Analysis. How about you? Where in Cumbria do you live/work? x Me - I used to work for a marketing company in Carlisle actually lol. Right now I'm an accountant at a Honda dealership in 'Cockermouth' and I live in Whitehaven, I want to move back to London though lol. xx Her - Good stuff What were you doing in London? Just logging off. My number is ***** ****** if you want to text me Gemma x And that was all in the space of 30 minutes on POF lol |
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| Author: | Guinness Man [ Sun May 10, 2009 10:19 pm ] |
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now you need to text her. something funny like. Hey, does this text make my phone look fat? Something to start the convo. Then future project without actually asking her to meet. Create a fun time together in her mind. |
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| Author: | Nazkyn [ Sun May 10, 2009 10:42 pm ] |
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Yeah, i'll definitely text her tomorrow Romantic chicken nugget happy meal openers have done amazingly well for me, by the way lol. Another one is kinda like a salesmen technique, you get them to say (or think) yes 3 times, e.g - Are you ticklish? Can you touch all of your teeth with your tongue? Aren't Jaffa Cakes brilliant? If you answered YES to the above 3 questions then... Er... I dunno? But, hi I've found that 90% of the time they just reply with either something like 'Hi, lol', or 'Sorry, but I don't like Jaffa Cakes, but hey |
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| Author: | Vesh [ Mon May 11, 2009 1:30 am ] |
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Haha nice i like some of theses ideas just need some time to field test a couple |
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