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Author:  Clooney [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Dating websites: what is a great profile?
Hi Guys!!

Any of you used a dating website to sarge and game babes?

I want to do it. But what would be a great profile?

Also, what do you do? Keep sarging a lot: i.e: contact a lot and see what happenss. Love to hear from those who had fuck-closed via dating websites.

Happy gaming.
Clooney
Author:  ZEGlass [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 10:13 pm ]
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I'm going to add to this question. What makes a profile terrible? What things, if they are present, destroy your chances? What things, if they are absent, destroy your chances?

I run into this problem a lot: I write an email to a girl, she views my profile, and then nothing. I clearly generate enough interest to get looked at, but something causes most women to decide not to reply. Okay, sure, online dating, even more so than trying to meet women in real life, is a numbers game. My rate of response is less than 5%, though. (Yes, I have kept track.) Even if I couldn't close very often, I'd like to think that I'd at least get a reply more frequently than one in twenty.
Author:  M15 [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 1:42 am ]
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I'm going to add to this question. What makes a profile terrible? What things, if they are present, destroy your chances? What things, if they are absent, destroy your chances?

I run into this problem a lot: I write an email to a girl, she views my profile, and then nothing. I clearly generate enough interest to get looked at, but something causes most women to decide not to reply. Okay, sure, online dating, even more so than trying to meet women in real life, is a numbers game. My rate of response is less than 5%, though. (Yes, I have kept track.) Even if I couldn't close very often, I'd like to think that I'd at least get a reply more frequently than one in twenty.
Wow that's interesting maybe your account sucks. Ouch okay I'll be much nicer. Look at this way if you look at your account and your reading it, your hoping for it to captivate your eyes. Don't be telling a whole story about your life, but things that can lead into a conversation. Try to show that your fun and INTERESTING.

It'd be much more helpful If I could see your profile. You don't have to give me the link to it but the information you have about yourself.

As for others things PICTURES!!!! This can either Help or KILL your value.

I try not to have single pictures that show that i can take a picture of me. The only single pictures I have of me were the pictures taken by a Professional photographer. Those people know how to make you amazing and look like a model. I am far from a model lol.

I try to have as many group pictures up it shows I'm social and outgoing. Also pictures of me doing outdoors stuff. Like skydiving or rock climbing.

Also remember if you are saying hi cutie, or your hot of course a girl is not gonna respond. There is many ways to get a girls response. Just the matter of pitching the right opener.
Author:  ZEGlass [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 2:44 am ]
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The pictures thing has been mentioned before. It's rather disappointing. I actually don't have any photos of me in groups or of me doing exciting, interesting things. I don't take photographs when I go out and I've really never done any of the really exciting things that make for good photography.
Author:  M15 [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 3:51 am ]
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The pictures thing has been mentioned before. It's rather disappointing. I actually don't have any photos of me in groups or of me doing exciting, interesting things. I don't take photographs when I go out and I've really never done any of the really exciting things that make for good photography.
Well I think it's time you get yourself out there. Join a club or something! I sense though your a fun person somehow. There's gotta be something fun about ya. If your life is dull then sharpen it! I'm not sure who said that but it was an athlete.
Author:  Clooney [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 9:45 am ]
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I'm going to add to this question. What makes a profile terrible? What things, if they are present, destroy your chances? What things, if they are absent, destroy your chances?

I run into this problem a lot: I write an email to a girl, she views my profile, and then nothing. I clearly generate enough interest to get looked at, but something causes most women to decide not to reply. Okay, sure, online dating, even more so than trying to meet women in real life, is a numbers game. My rate of response is less than 5%, though. (Yes, I have kept track.) Even if I couldn't close very often, I'd like to think that I'd at least get a reply more frequently than one in twenty.

Hi Guys ! Thanks ZE Glass for adding to that question. And Thansk Maximus15 for your advice.

ZEGlass, you are so like me. I also keep a log of my saring successes, online and in the real world. With online dating, I had the same problems. I send out a lot of emails. I rarely get a reply.

Maximus15 raises a vital point about photos. It's a shame that girls judge us by our photos when women are supposed to be less shallow! I got decent photos. But not professional ones. May be I need to invest in some of those.

Also, what tone should I go for? Cocky and confident? I looked at the top 20 most popular men on one good dating website. Those guys' profile are so dull. They go on about the same cliches: "I love having fun, I'm witty, I love beign with my friends, I love travelling around the world" . And these guys are at the top of the league. I want to be original. That doesn't seem to work. Women want cliches. What do you think? Shall I write one of those ordinary profiles? But that's not me!

Shall I send my current profile via PM to you guys and tell me what you think?
Or, do you think it would be a better idea to send it to a female friend?

Thanks for your time. Happpy 'gaming'
Clooney
Author:  Mungojerry [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 4:03 pm ]
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Rules for a good profile

1) Have good pics As other people have said, this is by far and away the most important factor in any profile.
a) Improve your physical appearance (work out etc). How you look as an individual is the most important thing.
b) Have fun, interesting and social photos etc.

2) Profile text
a) Do not DLV yourself. A normal short boring profile is better than one that that looks try-hard or makes you look like an asshole. Most PUA profiles I see are worse than normal guy profiles!
b) Be funny.
c) Insert DHVs in a very low key and 'matter of fact' way about your life. Do not over egg these, subtly is the key.


Everything after that is a bonus.
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