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Author:  tiemnao [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 7:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Flirting via email
OK, so my most successful sarging so far, and I know it's totally lame, is Craigslist. I can find many girls there, and keep them interested enough to keep exchanging some emails, telling stories, joking and stuff like that. Now it seems this road leads directly to friendzone. Now that's not the worst possible outcome, as I really need more females in my social circle, but I was wondering if it was possible to get anywhere more than that over email? Any kind of push-pull and anything else I can think of don't seem to have much effect at all, I guess because by the time they read the next message, all mood from the previous one disappears.

Any useful hints how to get any attraction going over email? Or should I try to switch to IM as early as possible? I'm worried that by the time I can get them to meet me I might be firmly established as a friend material, that's what it looked like so far.
Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 8:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting via email
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OK, so my most successful sarging so far, and I know it's totally lame, is Craigslist. I can find many girls there, and keep them interested enough to keep exchanging some emails, telling stories, joking and stuff like that. Now it seems this road leads directly to friendzone. Now that's not the worst possible outcome, as I really need more females in my social circle, but I was wondering if it was possible to get anywhere more than that over email? Any kind of push-pull and anything else I can think of don't seem to have much effect at all, I guess because by the time they read the next message, all mood from the previous one disappears.

Any useful hints how to get any attraction going over email? Or should I try to switch to IM as early as possible? I'm worried that by the time I can get them to meet me I might be firmly established as a friend material, that's what it looked like so far.
Great Questions!

I have used Craigslist quit a bit. As a matter of fact my GF is off there. :)

You need to get her from email to IM to the phone to a date as fast as you can escalate it, while still building attraction and comfort. If you don't escalate towards a date you'll be put in the fiend zone pretty quickly.

A good way to set the tone for the interaction is in your first message be very direct with them about what you want. I'll flat out tell a girl that I am interested in dating a few people, until I find "the one" and when I do, then I'll stick to that person. Most women can appreciate this. That will help set the tone, but you still have to build attraction through teasing, DHV Spikes, push/pull statements, false disqualifiers, or whatever you choose to use. :D

You're thinking right, you just have to escalate! Each new level they are talking to you on shows more comfort that was built! :)
Author:  tiemnao [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting via email
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I have used Craigslist quit a bit. As a matter of fact my GF is off there. :)
Just curious, did you mostly post your ads or replied to women's ads? I'm mostly posting ads, and a few get pretty decent response rates. Responding to ads didn't get me anywhere so far.
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 11:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting via email
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I have used Craigslist quit a bit. As a matter of fact my GF is off there. :)
Just curious, did you mostly post your ads or replied to women's ads? I'm mostly posting ads, and a few get pretty decent response rates. Responding to ads didn't get me anywhere so far.
Mostly Ads.
Author:  They Call Me Smooth [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 6:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting via email
My online game is extremely weak but my phone game is strong so I escalate to phone as fast as I can. I try to skip IM all together.
If they say something dumb or joke that I can turn on them. I normally use "I bet you come off better over the phone then in text."

The idea here is to make them think they are losing you via text and want to jump right to voice.
Author:  tiemnao [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting via email
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My online game is extremely weak but my phone game is strong so I escalate to phone as fast as I can. I try to skip IM all together.
If they say something dumb or joke that I can turn on them. I normally use "I bet you come off better over the phone then in text."

The idea here is to make them think they are losing you via text and want to jump right to voice.
Well, I'm really horrible over phone. Not just game over phone, that's pretty much impossible for me, any kind of conversation over phone. Over text-based mediums I'm really smooth. Not just for gaming, I'm simply writing loads and loads, and I'm good at it. So I'd rather have it go from text-based medium like email or IM or texting to go directly to face to face, without any phone calling in the middle. So, yeah, it will vary from person to person.
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