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Author:  bigdavestar [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 12:58 am ]
Post subject:  Help with a response
Hi guys,

I e-mailed this girl on Facebook after we met in a nightclub, she's a friend of a friend, the first message I sent to her was quite poor and basically said, i'm attracted to you and i'd like to take you out etc (really bad I know!).

Anyway, she hits me back with this, i'd like your thoughts and whether or not I can take this anywhere, I personally feel she is interested and that's the vibe I got from here when I was in the club.

Thanks alot for your time and help.
Quote:
Hey x

I did have a great night and please don't be sorry! I am the one who should be sorry as i am in a relationship and even though i am not really that happy, its complicated as we have been together for a very long time.

I would love to stay friends with you, you definately made me smile and it scared me a little as it was a bit like i had known you for years!!

Thanks for the lovely message. Sorry i didn't get back to you sooner, i haven't had an opportunity to use the computer, especially as facebook is banned from school and i seem to spend most of my time at work!
Author:  AaronW [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 8:32 am ]
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she straight out and said she is intrested...in any guy that is better then the one she has now. She also mentioned that fact that you already feel firmilar with her, which is great.

dont be needy or clingy, but show her how awesome of a guy you are, how spontaneous and fun. Be the man she does not have but be aluf about it.
Author:  nightrider767 [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 6:25 pm ]
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Hmmm, I would say, consider what an AFC would say and do the opposite. I would presume that an AFC would go right on the attack and tell her she needs to dump this guy, that life is so beautiful and short and blah, blah, blah...

A guy with skill would recognize that their are a couple of ways to approach this.

One that comes to mind for me would be showing some maturity and creating value. I'd probably show some sympathy about her situation. "Sorry about your relationship thing. That must blow! But yeah, I can see,,, you are hard to get along with! Lol!"

Then do some value building for yourself. Standard stuff. Feed her some stuff to get a giggle. Show that you got shit going on and have a life. Whatever it is.

If it's subtle and effective enough,,, she's gonna really wonder why she is with that other guy and not with someone like you who makes her feel good and laugh.

Just one approach.
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