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Author:  dazz3r [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 9:36 am ]
Post subject:  She's qualifiying herself to me...how to clinch the deal?
OK guys, on facebook I randomly added this bird. She is a good 8 I would say. So far I think I've done everything right and I have got to the point where she is telling me she has more to her than looks. Here is the conversation from last night (last message about 11pm and it wasn't in chat it was facebook's messages inbox so there was like half an hour to an hour between messages):

Me: dont get ur hopes up I just thought I knew you thats all lol

Her: Get my hopes up 4 wot? Lol u wish u kne me

Me: lol kne you?

Her: Wot that dnt make sense

Me: lol what's kne mean?

Her: u know wot i mean u wish u KNEW me lol that better

Me: sure you're pretty, but thats quite common these days :-P lol

Her: Am nt just luks am the ful package kido x

Me: lol sure kido x

Her: I reali am! Luks brains and am a rite laugh x

So she's qualifyng herself to me that she is a good laugh and has brains. I can think of a few ways of taking advantage of this but none better than to ask the community right here :P

So what would be the next killer line to put back to her ?
Author:  skypirate35 [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 5:55 pm ]
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not providing an answer, just wondering do people who write like that really have brains?
Author:  They Call Me Smooth [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 6:17 pm ]
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not providing an answer, just wondering do people who write like that really have brains?
I was thinking the same thing. Good God is it really that much harder to write knew over kne or what over wot.

And to answer your questions. Tell her she is bias and the only way to know is to find out yourself. Set up a date/meeting and role from there.
Author:  Daishi [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 8:36 pm ]
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not providing an answer, just wondering do people who write like that really have brains?
I was thinking the same thing. Good God is it really that much harder to write knew over kne or what over wot.

And to answer your questions. Tell her she is bias and the only way to know is to find out yourself. Set up a date/meeting and role from there.
My IQ dropped 30 points.
Author:  Different Cloud [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 9:35 pm ]
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I'm pretty sure it's just her online keyboard talk and she's typing fast so missing letters. 'Ye Kne'

Yes she's qualifying herself but on a base level, lets try and get deeper into qualification then setup a date.

Her: I reali am! Luks brains and am a rite laugh x

You: oh realli kiddo, so what is the single awesomest thing about you?
(Directive)

Her: Blah Blah Blah Blah
(She'll Work)

You: No Way, I love girls that are X blah blah ... I'm not too sure though because blah blah
(Reward and Takeaway)

After her reply continue another circle or get her to prove it for real and go out :D

Mehow Style,

Enjoy :lol:
Author:  dazz3r [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 11:46 pm ]
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I'm from the UK and text speak seems to be growing in popularity. I personally hate it but what can you do? This girls is a Uni student aswell lol.

OK, I've just replied with the "lol ok then, whats the most awesomest thing about you?"

I'll post back what she says. Cheers guys.
Author:  skypirate35 [ Thu Mar 05, 2009 11:48 pm ]
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I'm from the UK and text speak seems to be growing in popularity. I personally hate it but what can you do? .
have standards?
Author:  dazz3r [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 10:10 am ]
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OK guys she posted this back 7:40 am this morning:

"Just the fact that am me! X"

It's a shorter answer than I anticipated. My motivation on this is purely learning, I'm not particularly 'into' this girl although she is quite pretty. So in that respect, I'm not that worried about possibly putting her off. I'm curious to see if (with your help walking me through it) I can her to the coffee shop!
Author:  Different Cloud [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 1:20 pm ]
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Such a damm good question aswell and she blew it away. You certainly aren't going to reward that response, she isn't working for you or qualifying herself, she is simple either non attracted enough yet or she geniunely has nothing interesting about herself to tell you.

You: "Ohh you’re one of THOSE, solipsistic ego queen...."
(NEG HER)

Ignore her reply and trail qualification again.

You: "Hm well tell me then, what are your three best qualities that makes me want to know you better?"

Your High Value and have High Standards remember!
Author:  dazz3r [ Fri Mar 06, 2009 9:25 pm ]
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Well I posted:

"Ohh you’re one of THOSE, an ego queen..lol :p " similar to how you suggested at 3:30 pm this afternoon.

She replied at 4:50 pm with this:

"nothing wrong wi been confident n honest lol"

She's good i seems lol. I was thinking of replying with something along the lines of:

"nah, I bet its just a front and in the flesh you're a bit shy ;)"

What do you think?

UPDATE:

OK, I osted that "nah, I bet its just a front and in the flesh you're a bit shy ;)"

and she replied an hour later:

"i dnt give owt away no1 cn read my poker face"

She's just not biting lol. Do I maintain my frame or do something a bit different now? I mean she keeps replying which is no doubt a good sign lol.
Author:  Different Cloud [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 3:59 pm ]
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Well I posted:

"Ohh you’re one of THOSE, an ego queen..lol :p " similar to how you suggested at 3:30 pm this afternoon.
Others may disagree but I don't like the lol, It was meant to be a Neg, delivered with mystery and in a serious manner, by adding 'lol :p' your basically saying don't worry I'm joking - If your In Field at deliver a neg to a women would you laugh straight after it? No!

I believe she isn't attracted enough for her to qualify herself to you, what you need to do is step backwards in attraction and create more high value.
Author:  dazz3r [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 4:37 pm ]
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I see where you're coming from cloud. I just didn't feel it fit in with my personality, I'm just the type who never takes stuff too seriously and I struggle to not laugh or at least smile when I do deliver a neg irl! It's possibly something I need to work on.

Anyway, I havent replied to that last message she sent but...

She updated her status to "Can you read my poker face?"

...and she has commented on my status update of "is cream crackered from last night zzzzzzzzzz lol" with..

"what you get up to"

So i guess there is interest from her part. What next?
Author:  Luca_J [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 5:42 pm ]
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I'd reply with "Wouldnt you like to know ;)"

Personally yeah there is interest on her behalf but your really need to attract her some more, it will do you the world of good.

Show her your preselected. This is the most powerful attraction switch in my opinion, remember don't tell her show her.
Author:  Myth [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 5:49 pm ]
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She pretty much doing what YOU should be doing!
Shes being mysterious and making you wonder.

You definetly havent lost her yet. Clouds has given you
some great advice so far. I agree, you need to build some
more attraction. You need to get her to invest more into
the conversation or its not going to go anywhere. The more
she invests the more attracted she will become (Adams theory
on attraction).
Author:  dazz3r [ Sat Mar 07, 2009 6:05 pm ]
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She pretty much doing what YOU should be doing!
Shes being mysterious and making you wonder.

You definetly havent lost her yet. Clouds has given you
some great advice so far. I agree, you need to build some
more attraction. You need to get her to invest more into
the conversation or its not going to go anywhere. The more
she invests the more attracted she will become (Adams theory
on attraction).
Good stuff mate. Well I pretty much have been following Cloud's suggestions and they're great. Based on what you have explained, what would you do next in my position?
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