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Author:  tom3208 [ Wed Jan 21, 2009 10:02 pm ]
Post subject:  From online to the real deal

Well, yesterday i thought id take a shot at online dating while i was bored. I took the whole thing as a C&F training actually. I went to a chatroom and ended up talking to a nice babe for an hour or two. She repeated many times that she isnt here to hook up with a guy / she isnt easy. Despite that i got her email and added her on messenger.

My problem is that while i chatted with her yesterday using DHV stories and c&f i really think i gave an exaggerated picture of myself and my skills with women. Its easy for ther to think that im some kind of a player but the truth is, im a virgin who hasnt had a gf for three years :D haha

Anyway i left her the picture that i just wanna be friends and i plan to meet her at a club or something... as a friend! Ofcourse ill try and be as c&f as possible when i meet her. But im kinda worried coz shell probably expect that i have tons of friends and will pickup 6 other girls the same night i meet her.

I just mean that i dont have an ultimate social status even though she probably got that kind of a picture of me. Im just a newb-pua who hasnt even closed anyone yet. Anyone else worried about not meeting up with girls expectations when meeting her for the first time?

ps. its not crucial for me to actually get laid with her. I could really just be friends with her but it still sucks ass as im not what she thinks. I feel like a fake.

I guess my plan is to do like Cajun once said: Fake it till' you make it!

Author:  frenzal [ Wed Jan 21, 2009 10:11 pm ]
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Yeah - you shouldn't have demonstrated too much value. I'm in marketing, and we have a saying: "Underpromise, overdeliver". Whilst this may not apply completely to PUArtistry, it's important not to go:

"I'm a massive muscly hunk, who all women run to, and i can make a chick cum in minutes"

If she meets you she may be able to see through it.

However, if The Game and other sources are correct, ultimately it shouldn't matter too much what has previously happened, as long as you run the right lines, kino escalate, etc.

If you suck at sex just follow it up with "sorry, I was just nervous as you seem like a good friend already and I hardly know you".

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