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Author:  -Code- [ Sat Jan 17, 2009 11:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Trouble with Attraction

I met this HB on a dating site. Hit her up with opinion opener. Went on and conversed with her for like 30 min. I was telling a DHV story like every 5 minutes. Keeping it cocky and fun. Making her laugh like hell. Had her do some hoops. Found the stuff we had in common and started talking about that. Then I called it a night.

Couple of days later I step up to bat again. I figure I built enough attraction the first night with all of the laughs and DHVs I was throwing out. I got her to do some compliance also invest a little bit. Started to build raport. Then called it a night.

Next encounter I was like, I should be able to build some more rapport and hit this one out of the park. I started off by running cube. I did some more cocky and fun shit. She still wouldn't chase or try to qualify or anything.
I got frustrated. I asked if she had a BF and she said "not really there is a guy I like who lives in another state though". At this point I am like "wtf I am loosing to some scrub who lives in another state".

Now I'm pretty much in the friend zone. We have a lot in common. Every time I remotely bring something up about us doing something together, she immediately shuts me down, doesn't even play along for fun.

Our conversations are super long and not worth posting on here. I did my best with the description of what was going on.

Author:  talmortinc [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:48 am ]
Post subject:  RE

freeze her out!! dont message her, meet her or call her or anything just,.. stop.
isnt she playing with you?

cheers,

talmortinc

Author:  AaronW [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 6:48 pm ]
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put her on the back burner,

when you do speak with her, neg her...put her in the friend zone. make her chase you, make her wonder why you say the things you do.

"If you cant convince them, confuse them"

that emotional response alone will get them to pay more attention to you because no other guy has done such.

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