She wrote:
"Right kind of guy... I guess lately, I'm looking for something that I don't know how you put into words besides...I guess the spark that swallows me up and consumes me and makes me feel giddy inside and i can't wait to talk to him again...kind of like back in high school when first boyfriends were exciting I guess. That feeling rarely happens these days...most guys I meet, I find myself thinking...yeah, so what? and right then and there, he gets the "friend zone" stamp... lol. and there's not much hope for any more than that once I've had that thought. I guess I'm looking for someone who I feel like my life would be better with and we would make eachother better someone i can't live without. my life is pretty great the way it is and i'm safe and happy, so a man that would come into my life would be a bonus i guess.
The second part about being held of what you said, lol is kind of sappy, of course I like cuddling and being held, but I can't use that to narrow down the search, everyone has arms and most all feel good when hugging, lol.
later,
jane"
I hadn't built enough comfort with her yet I don't think, but what can I send to her next to make sure I don't get my ass friend-zoned?
