Hi. I'm new to the PUA community, so not so many weeks ago I was the AFC that we have all been some time in the past
So I'll start off with some background information.A couple of months ago I met this HB9 that was in a relationship at the time, but seemed intrested. I met her a couple of times and at our third meeting she told me she just broke up with her BF. As the AFC i was I was this super-nice guy who invited to dinners, long talks, was clingy and needy.
Even with my AFC-skills I managed to kiss-close on our 4th meeting, and f-close on our 6th meeting. (but hey, even a blind mouse can find the occational cheese) We continued meeting up the next month, and every evening ended up with sex. I thought I was the luckiest guy alive, so I did everything I could not to lose her. Payed for everything, acting needy, and the big deal-breaker: I told her how I felt about her.
Since then things have been going kind of up and down. She's been acting not intrested, and kind off annoyed by me.
I still had theese feelings for her, so I decided to find out what makes guys attractive to girls, and stumbled upon the PUA community. I've read The Game, numerous David DeAngelo-books, online books, and a lot of forums. And yesterday I tried out my first online-game with tthe same HB9.
So here goes. (everything written in bold is my comment to why I wrote what I wrote)
Oh, and I live in Europe, so text-messaging is more common than actual calls. (yeah, I know.. how stupid is that? :p ) And the conversation was going on in my own language, so this is the translated version.
Facebook chat:
Me: Hey HB9. Quick question. I'm on my way out.. **False time-constraint**
HB9: yep
Me: I'm trying to plan next week. Wanna meet up this monday?
**Yeah, I know, a little AFC**HB9: Bah, I can't this monday. Got this project at school that I need to deliver on tuesday, so I'm working with my group all night.. yuck!
Me: ok
btw, it looks like you got a little less flexible calender than me. Why don't you find days that works for you, and you ask me if I can make it in stead? I'm tired of asking and getting no all the time ;PHB9: haha, of course
Me: But gotta run. Text me.
**And then I went offline right after sending the last message, so I was the one finishing the conversation**
Half an hour later, I got a text from HB9 on my cell.
Her: How about tuesday or wednesday?
Me: Hmm.. I got some work-things happening one or both of those days.. I'll check my calender when I'm back home and I'll answer you tonight.
Her: Ok, but we'll figure something out.
Me: Yep. We'll do that. Long time since we hooked up now. But I'll text you later, we'll figure it out. **Again being the one ending the conversation, and no smilys to act busy**
Two hours later I texted her:
me: Hey friend! Just checked my calender.. And if I work a little on monday I can make it happen on tuesday. But on one condition! You have to give me a great big hug when I see you!
**Calling her friend to create the why-don't-he-like-me-syndrome, and making her jump through my hoop before I commit to tuesday and jumping through hers**Her: Yep, tuesday it is! Or we can take it some other day, if you have to stress at work to make it happen.. And of course you're getting a hug
Me: Nah, no plans yet on Monday, so I'll do some work then. And we can't take it some other day, cause I've been hungering for this great steak dinner for weeks :p And the new episodes of Dexter! You havent been watching them behind my back, have you? ;P **We have been talking earlier about a steak dinner and Dexter-episodes the next time we hook up**
Her: No, I would never do that! You know I can't watch Dexter unless I'm with you!
Me: You obviously know what's best for you! Cause if you had seen the new episodes without me, you would be up for a beating! ;P But I'm hitting the shower and heading for bed. (it still smells like massage-oil from last time
) **intern joke** Got this party I have to be ready for tomorrow, so I need my beautysleep. Good night, and sleep tight, HB9. **Again being the one ending the conversation, and as a little DHV, telling her I got this party tomorrow**-------
So there it is. As this was my first online/text-game so I bet it isnt as good as it should be
Where can I improve, and did I do something wrong?
oh, and I'm good in handling critique, so be harsh and point out every little mistake you can find.