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Author:  searchofsunrise [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 4:25 am ]
Post subject:  HB9 opens me. now im obssessed
Alright I usually dont do online sarging, but opportunity knocked on MY door lol.
Earlier today this HB9 added me on facebook. I rarely get random adds, and when i do its always like HB6 or below. anyways, we exchanged some messages and then she said she had to get off. this is how it went:



searchofsunrise
Today at 6:43pm
hey lol thnks for the add...
do you go to the U?

HB9
Today at 7:07pm
Heyy !
oh no problem
Yehh i go to the University .


searchofsunrise
Today at 7:38pm
ohh nice. do you always add cute guys?? : D
what program are you in btw?

HB9
Today at 7:41pm
Yes, usually.
im actually going to be a Dentist. :)
what about you?


searchofsunrise
Today at 7:48pm
dentist? thats gross :P do you really want to be in people's nasty mouths every day?
im in psychology so i might end up as a psychiatrists

HB9
Today at 7:55pm
Well it's good money and i don't mind it .
oh thats really cool! i was actually going to go to be a therapist at first but decided i'd rather be a dentist.
:D


searchofsunrise
Today at 8:23pm
its really fun actually lol. therapist and dentist..you seem like someone who is really interested in helping people in their lives..am i right or is it mostly for the moneylol

HB9
Today at 8:25pm
More of helping people to be honest, but don't get me wrong the money is a good bonus !
what about you why are you doing into psychiatry ?


searchofsunrise
Today at 8:36pm
well I started Business, but i switched half way through the semester into psychology. i just really like it. i want to know about how/why people think and behave the way they do. social sciences are the only academic subject im actually interested in. and to be honest idk if i will be a psychiatrist or psychologist after i graduate

HB9
Today at 9:02pm
Oh that sounds pretty cool.
i have a lot of homework to do so i'll ttyl .
byee
xox


searchofsunrise
Today at 9:06pm
okk take care




ok guys this is where i need your help.
1- please critique any messages ive sent her that could've been replaced by something better.
2- most importantly i need a game plan. i want what all us guys want...sex lol. how do i meet up with her first? i need to start building a relationship with her but this cant go on online. do i need to get her on my msn first and talk to her there for an amount of time? This is my only concern...im sure if i met up with her i could build attraction. So the question is...what steps do i take to set up a meeting with her?

thanks in advance for anyone whos willing to help
Author:  NINO THE BEAST [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:13 am ]
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Hey bro this is kind of random but whenever Im sarging online I try to be the first one to end the chat... Idk, it seems to work out, hope this helps, Sarge on!
Author:  djay [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 4:37 pm ]
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you have interest and she agreed you are attractive so just build more attraction and then move through to comfort, set up a meet...arrange a party or something i find works well and then go into seducation on a second meeting. at a party you will be able to dhv really well and you might be the only person she knows so it all works in your favour. hope this helps

oh also play the question game online...always works for me
Author:  Hawkin [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 6:57 pm ]
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To be honest, this sounds like the usual chit-chat which made girls stop msging me online when I was afc. It's just my opinion but I'd stop showing so much interest and stop the questions. Rather do something completely surprising, neg her hard (maybe on a photo) or play some text game.
Just guess how many boys she has a similar chat with... When I read you qualifying yourself talking about psychology, I felt boredom.

Of course, of course, psychology is all cool and stuff and you R going to have a nice job (maybe). But that's not what she wants to hear! EITHER emphasize what you do really good and exaggerating (overuse of smileys and exclamation marks, write some CAPS, etc) so she sees you're a funny person OR use it as a good DHV story OR just don't answer her interview question. Do something crazy.
Another mistake (still talking about your 8:36 msg), there was nothing in your msg that pushes conversation! No question, no request, no neg, no nothing ;)

Next time you msg her start off with something crazy, neg her by asking whether she has nothing cool/interesting to talk about for example. If she wants to keep talking to you she'd better come off with something more interesting!

She is just being nice, not hooked at all in my opinion.
Oh yeah, never ever do this again: "okk take care". It conveys neediness and you don't want to do that :)
And as Nino said, try to end the chat first! I know it's all cool when some HB is chatting with you and you just want to keep talking, but at some point the HB will end the conversation for any means... "homework" she calls it here :roll:
Try to always end the chat first. Even if you don't have/want to do anything today. Quit it. Do something else ;)

Hope this leads you in a better direction. You want to come off as anything but the average guy on those online platforms.
Author:  searchofsunrise [ Thu Nov 20, 2008 7:04 am ]
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thanks guys for your responses, which ive read over a few times. i hope to put them to good use

-searchofsunrise
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