Hey
Talking to Rye Lee helped termendous! I mean termendous - whatever he put inside my head changed my drastically. He unlocked the Fun, Caring, Flirty, Sexual person that I was before. I was uptight, rigid, serious, angry, and just damn right out lame. However, with girls you can not be lame what's so ever!
Now, I'm not saying this is my Masterpiece of Myspace seduction - well, it certainly adds women faster than you can shit out bricks!
So, let's discuss Profile Fixer Upper. Now you want something flashy, something that catches someone's attention. No, sorry - you standing in a clown suit may do the job but it's simply not enough!
Sorry! However, something that will drive the woman insane and decide to add you. So take a look in my profile:http://www.myspace.com/insanemedia2008
I modified my nickname to fit who I am really. I'm basically a freaky - sex machine. Whoo hoo for nymphos! You want something seductive, maybe alittle humor mixed with seductiveness to you. Something that will let people see the real you. Also have pictures of friends, maybe something u really care about, something that will show other's you have a sense of humor like my Crazy Hair day pictures. If you're goofy and silly then maybe do something silly, if you're wild and fun - do something that's wild and fun to show you them you have a adventurous side. People can say all they want and when it comes to the bottom line - sometimes you can sense it's fake.
Now, I just updated my profile this after noon and I got a bunch of adds and messages sent back to forth to alot of them which added me.
So, you changed your profile right? Maybe alittle fun, exciting, maybe alittle dramatic, maybe freaky shit! Anything dull or blahh isn't going to help you none. Also, you may want to change your screen name to toggle the right people. If you are fun, exciting and party guy then you wanna have something that says something and don't say something like, 'Party Guy. because that will just say okay - well, that's lame. If you say, "Drink 'Til I drop Dead!" that shows you like to have fun and possibly can be invertantly taken as Alcoholic. Whatever, the point is not to care what other's think. Just do what you want regardless of giving a rat's ass of pleasing other people. Thanks Rye!
So, once you've done all that great stuff, maybe gave your profile a face lift. Now, you can select your targets. Now, people may say - don't flirt with women u don't know. Women love that - fuck the people that say it. Women love compliments - women are sucker for compliments.
So, you got your little pick right. Now, observe something maybe unique in their picture or profile. Click the add me button. If they have a comment u would like to make type in something like, "You have very a sexy smile!" if you notice there's two of them in a picture or a group. A compliment would be "Wow, you girls like fun types of people!" Now, it's better to view these women as people not objectively. Now if you write, "Wow, you got big milk jugs can I squeeze them?" they might laugh and might not add u in. Another funny comment would be, "You make my heart melt looking into your eyes!". Also, take mental notes of what she looks like what she has on. "Women with glasses show they're very intellicual and sexy!
" Oh, by the way. Always put a
this shows ur being friendly.So then what right? Well, as soon they add you - send them a message. Don't say, "Thanks for the add!" it'll sound youre weak and inferior. Say this, "Hey, my name is... what's up?"
Another note that i noticed is that always talk short and never long descriptive until the conversation get's going well. Also, don't be so serious everyone hates when you start talking serious. There might be Dead Ends in a conversation which may calls a closed conversation to happen. Just reverse and re-ignite the conversation. Maybe a change of the subject and if that's not helping then drop the person from ur friend list.
You may wanna add flirt and humour to the mixture - which would add kinda a mystery which women like.
This one girl and I chatted on YIM and she and I had a pretty hot conversation. Now, technically when someone calls you a retard or a loser - it means something bad. Just laugh at it because it would show the woman you don't care. You're just fine. Major IOI's were being send. We were playing a pool game online and I didn't really know how to play the damn game but I was laughing because it was so funny. Also, I was making fun of myself because it showed that I was comfortable with myself but if you say, "Oh, i'm such a loser..." and start crying about it then u are a loser but if you laugh and say, "I'm such loser!" and laugh so more then this shows you're totally confident. Which is a plus.
I'm not trying to be a teacher or anything but just giving you guys some things I took notes on. HOpe this helps!