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Author:  Namida [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 12:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Seeking advice for an online Sarging problem.
hey Guys
So I'm a new and inexperienced PUA. I have one in-field exp. I opened a set (tough I must admit that the girls I was talking to were introduced to me, so I really didn't open much)
but the problem is that I have quite the sum of friend, and most of the time these friends keep introducing me to people I do not yet know.

So yesterday I decided to invent an opener, one that could be used offline and online. That way I could both be committed to the online and offline game.

I chose 3 at-random profiles on which to bestow my opener upon.
I said something about a discussion some of my mates were having, about women. and how some of my m8's were claiming that women could easily feel whether men were confident or not.
so that's basically what I asked them.
one did not reply, one replied saying "I've got better things to do"
and one (The HB10 of the three girls) answered me. she said "I wouldn't be able to know if you're confident by reading your message, but I guess the way a guy walks ... "

but how will I go from here, 'cause I was just focusing on the opener, and now I'm stuck.
What would be the best way to continue, or what would be the better way to start?
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Seeking advice for an online Sarging problem.
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but how will I go from here, 'cause I was just focusing on the opener, and now I'm stuck.
What would be the best way to continue, or what would be the better way to start?
This is a hard question for us to answer. First we really don't know the exact opener you used, and we don't know her exact response. This can help us tell a lot. I'm not telling you this to embarrass or anything else but I'm trying to help.

Next, you created this opener out of thin air, and you are asking us to help you create a routine stack out of thin air custom to you. That is kind of difficult to do, as you know you best. Basically, you are going to need to stretch this opener you created a bit. She mentioned body language, you can ask her for examples or something.

After a bit this little opener is going to run it's conversational course and you'll need to switch the conversation in email to another interesting topic to keep her interested. What stories and topics you choose I can't tell you to use because then it wouldn't be you speaking to her it'd be me. The worst thing we can do is make you incongruent with who you are, because she'll see through that.

Good Luck my man, :wink: it's just practice
Author:  Namida [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 2:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Thank ye
Well, This is just the kind of advice I wanted. the reasons I didn't give the exact opener and response was because I wanted to avoid people trying to tell me exactly what to say next, and the opener and response aren't English, so I thought it'd be easier just to summarise a bit :p

anyway, thanks for your advise, and should you ever have any other tips you think I should know, I'd be more then happy to read them.
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:42 pm ]
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I have given other people tips in the past that seem to help. You might find some more useful information there.


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